as i stated before, it's been a long time between us being intimate. what can i get to help her get in the mood?
2007-01-13 04:30:15 · 12 answers · asked by jimbeagleman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
is there viagra for females?
if not, use foreplay
2007-01-13 04:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by honey007rmsas 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to a nice restaurant or do a candlelite dinner at home, dance to some soft music that she like, look her in her eyes telling her how you feel, get her a card and place a rose on top of it and enjoy eachother. Do Not say anything about sex. you'll mess it all up. put balloons in your bedroom/bathroom with scented candles around the bed and tub. Draw her some bath water and lay a bath towel along with her dry towel and something sexy for her to wear on the sink next to a glass of wine.wash her feet and back/pamper her. massage her temples. and you should now be on your way. a word of advice, don't just do this when she's not sexing you or she's mad, do it at least once a month...
2007-01-13 04:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lakenya P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, buy a package to a couples day spa. While you are there have a housekeeping service come in and clean the house from top to bottom, dishes and laundry too. Take her to a fabulous dinner or a romantic evening out. Come home early and take things slow.
Hopefully the current stresses will go away for the day at least.
Don't try to clean the house yourself - youdon't want to be too tired. :)
2007-01-13 04:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband massaging me all over works for me........ it relaxes me. the best time is when its quiet of course.. Play some relaxing music, light some candles, ask her if she wants to have a bubble bath with you, and best of all catch her when she is not stressed and/or busy with something.. You might even have a talk with her w/o attacking and tell her that you are still attracted to her (give her genuine compliments).....
OH, the thought of going through changes for some women can be upsetting.. like getting older, etc... you might want to let her know that you are there for her and want to go through it with her and she doesn't have to be alone in this..
2007-01-13 04:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that you can do it be loving and supportive, her body is going through changes and she is going to need you to be attentive and supportive and loving.
Because the last thing she's probbaly going to want is to have sex, and I can understand that it's been a a while, but you have to be patient and wait till she is ready.
2007-01-13 04:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about getting her in the mood....it's about her hormones and you can't fix that.
You can go with her to her GYN & let her/him know that she's having a problem in this area.....there are some things that can fix this.
Of course your wife has to want to fix this problem.....if indeed she thinks it's a problem.
2007-01-13 04:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she? Maybe it's best you seek doctor's advice on how to help her get back in the mood.
2007-01-13 04:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think carefully, about your relationship. How, when, where do you approach your wife for sex, some times you can barter for sex. If I do this will you do that? There are books, DVD's & sex therapy. Watch her body language, it can say more than words, body language seldom tells lies.
2007-01-13 04:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by RICHARD T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try different things, maybe role playing or something like that to spice it up a little. Compliment her alot! Let her know how bad you want her. Try some Romance! Things that she likes. Good Luck
2007-01-13 04:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be nice to her. maybe a little romance will help her. also maybe she needs to speak to her gynecologist. does she recognize this as a problem too? if not,just try and make her feel sexy and wanted by doing nice things for her and surprising her with flowers and stuff.
2007-01-13 04:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by emmys momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a selection of "erotic romance" to read over a few drinks.
"Erotic Romance" is porn designed for women.
2007-01-13 04:49:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋