ok so ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months and he says "i love you" to me all the time but im not sure if i love him mean love is a really strong word and i dont kno if he really loves me or hes just sayin that bc im his girlfriend. he didnt just start telling me this he has been telling me he loves me ever since we started going out......how long was it before u told ur girlfriend/boyfriend u loved them back??
2007-01-13 04:22:42 · 17 answers · asked by bre bre 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
how should i tell him?
2007-01-13 04:24:24 · update #1
A week after we met. :) That was cuz we'd spent literally every spare minute of every day with each other. He said I love you to me, and I was kinda shocked. But then this really warm feeling swept through me, and I realized that what I'd been feeling for him was love. I let out a deep breath and said it back.
If you don't have those feelings for him, or if you don't have that reaction to him saying I love you, then don't say it back. I've done that before and it can get you in big trouble. The guy starts thinking you're on the same page as him and takes the relationship way farther than you want. I had one guy ask me to marry him, and I was like, huh when did things get that far? I know it feels funny when he says I love you. You don't know what to say back to him that won't hurt his feelings. I would just say you need to have a talk with him. Sit down and say, 'I don't want to scare you with what I'm going to say, I don't want to break up or anything. I care very deeply for you, but I'm not sure I love you YET, and I want to be 100% sure before I say it, because I don't want either of us to end up hurt.' Tell him how important he is to you and how much you love to spend time with him. I think he'll totally understand, and it's really much better to get it all out in the open. You don't want to end up like I did, with a man that thinks you're so in love you're ready to get married, and you just kinda like hanging out with him. :) He was really hurt when I told him I didn't love him like that. It really sucked.
2007-01-13 04:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by benjis.girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a strong word . Depending on the 2 and if they both know the true meaning of love. You don't really love someone after just 2 months because you are still learning about them and who they are. Take your time and get to know each other. Good Luck
2007-01-13 04:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not a certain amount of time before you say "I love you" Love is an emotion that is felt at any given moment. My ex slipped up and said "I love you" with in two weeks of us dating. I then slipped and said it two weeks later. For me it took a month. For her it took two weeks. The strange thing is I never planned on saying the word! It came out involuntarily. I was shocked when I said it because I meant it. I was afraid that it was to soon. Turned out the timing was right. All I can say is relax enjoy and when the time is right it let you know without warning. It feels great.
Good Luck
2007-01-13 04:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be pushed into saying "I love you". Some people say it automatically without meaning. I think that's because they don't know the difference between love and like. If you don't feel it, don't say it. Sometimes like can turn into love, but there isn't any time line involved. You can have love at first sight, or it can take months or years to grow into that. And of course, sometimes it won't develope at all. You sound like you know the difference in your feelings and I'd suggest you stick with it. If you mean it, say it.
2007-01-13 04:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by josie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months
2007-01-13 04:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are yall??....Dont ever tell a guy you love them unless you know for sure!!!...2 months is way to soon to start saying that...If a guy really does they are just as scared as us...Dey tell you when they really ready!!..This little guy is just playing games dont let him fool you and don't put out cause he tell you that!!
2007-01-13 04:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by confused69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 05:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm when i first met my husband he said alot of nice things too me and i was at the time used to guys saying nice thing but they were assholes three month into the relationship he said i love you to me and i didnt say it to him because i thought he was fakin it or just sayin it because he had too, but two days later i said i love u to him and i foiund out that he really ment it and now he is the love of my life forever and a day, a guy doesn't say i love u unless he really truely means it.
2007-01-13 04:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by Lynn Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him when you're ready. My girlfriend doesn't say it to me. I say it to her and I truly mean it. She is the most wonderful person there is. If you say it back to him, it will be a huge confidence and relationship booster. Of course, you have to mean it, otherwise it doesn't work.
2007-01-13 05:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by Dido 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I understood that he really meant it i told him that i love him but i felt the same way too.If you don't share the same feelings for him you should break up with him cause you'll hurt him if not.
2007-01-13 04:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋