i have this friend. lets call her hannah. hannah liked this guy for a few months and started dating him after a while and they have been going out for atleast 3-4 months. just recently hannah has started hanging out with this other girl (rachel, made up name). hannah and i have been best friends for 3 years, and know, shes being really rude and is starting to ignore me. for our next semester classes hannah has 2 periods with rachel, only one with me, but transfered to the same class as i have so we could be together. now rachel has the same class as us. i dont really want to talk to hannah about it, because i dont want to reuin out friendship. but i dont also want to be left out and look stupid. i just want rachel to die. what should i do??
2007-01-13 03:52:24 · 12 answers · asked by PACHANK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm not of your age, but I'm guessing early to mid-teens. Die is a pretty strong term to use over a friendship. Believe me, no friend is that important. I would suggest you try to make more friends and still keep Hannah as one. And I know you'll find this hard to believe, but Hannah probably will not be your "best friend" forever. As people get older their ideas and opinions change and alot of times friends grow apart, despite how close you were at one time. So to make sure you have friends over the years, it's best to make several and you have a better chance of 1 friend changing like you do. Hope this helps! I know it's tough, went through it several times in high school. Just don't let it get ugly, believe me...down the road you'll realize it wasn't worth it.
2007-01-13 04:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by josie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, i SO feel ur pain! Rachel is what i would call a "sticker" she's fun and appealing to somone. (Hannah) But other see her for what she truly is: an obnoxious girl that hangs on to people everychance she gets. I thnik you should call hannah, ask if she wants to hang out or something, and then casually bring up the topic of rachel. See what you can find out about her. Are her parents split up? Does she have any sisters? Maybe rachel just haas a bad family life. If hannah Is asking why you care, just say something like: No reason, i justsee you guys hanging out.
2007-01-13 04:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by LivexYourxLifex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell "Hannah" how you feel. I dont think she is intentionally being rude. Just let her know that you feel left out. Hey maybe you girls instead of being two best friends u can be three. Give "Rachael" a chance. It seems as if u didnt even try to like her because u thought she was taking away your best friend. There is no rule that says you have to have just one best friend. Just think about it ok.
2007-01-13 03:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sher-Sher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a bad wish to make on Rachel. Can you talk to Hannah about how you realy feel ?
2007-01-13 04:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jack M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried making freinds with rachel too? don't believe that rubbish about 3's a crowd. for all you know she could really be a good laugh. You're mate shouldn't have to choose between you both. although you can't be freinds with everyone, you should ask your mate to try and spend with you both in a group. i had the same problem. my idea worked for me and now i have 2 best mates :D
2007-01-13 03:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by Em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are jealous, if you continue to act like this you will loose both of them. Why do you hate Rachel so much? why did she do to you?. Why not try to make friends with hear as well maybe the 3 of you can really be good friends.
Just give it a shot.
2007-01-13 03:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by Rosy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to hannah about why she is being really rude to you. does she talk to you with rachel? if not all three of you need to talk.
2007-01-13 03:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by ajdgzmn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a sad thing to say, friends go in different directions, your friend would want all of you to be friends, so my advice to you is talk to your good friend and don't wish nothing bad upon anyone.
2007-01-13 03:59:14 · answer #8 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me last year... talk to her/ it took my friend a while to realize that she was actually ignoring me, but she figured it out & now we're best friends again
2007-01-13 03:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a problem , deal with it then and there. Your upset, because you feel like you have been betrayed. If you let the problem go on it will turn into a fight. There is a roach, and you must stomp it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-13 03:57:48 · answer #10 · answered by brandley_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋