Do u ever think a wife or a husband is not enough to full fill our sexual fantasises, if u think so wt is the solution for that?
2007-01-13 03:41:48 · 19 answers · asked by smash wit love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my guy was always enough for me
2007-01-13 03:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I do think that a spouse might not be enough to fill your fantasies. We marry them for love, not sexual ability. At least I did and I think that's how it should be. Sometimes explaining your feelings to your spouse might help and you can try different things to help fulfill your fantasies. But I have to agree with another poster that some fantasies are better left alone. After trying some of mine with my spouse, I found out that keeping fantasies as fantasies was alot more excited than living them.
2007-01-13 11:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by josie s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Except for the last 150 years a man always had a mistress, the wife was to cook clean have baby's and raise them. The mistress was for fun sex and companion, the wife's new it did not matter that's the way it was, and for all you people going to be upset by this, read your history.
2007-01-13 11:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by sidekick 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I don't think that cheating is the answer. All women have a wild side to them. It is just harder to bring out in some than others. You need to find out what will lower her inhibitions and get her to participate in your sexual fantasies. She may be feeling the same way and just not know how to approach you with it either...
2007-01-13 11:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by jlynna10 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Always with the fantasies. What you may think is going to be amazing in your mind, sexually, can be harmful emotionally to you and your partner in the long run. Even if your partner may be willing to subdue to your wild imagination, it's usually in your marriages best interest to keep them fantasies. Unless of course, they are fairly reasonable like playing doctor or taking her in a new position in a new place.
2007-01-13 11:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by *Ms Manners* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is why I believe in POLYGAMY
if the government can legalize same sex marriages then they can legalize polygamy, why can't we have more than one legal partner is we want too, both guy and girls can have what they want without cheating and getting a divorce, why can't a girl have two or three legal husbands why, and why can't a guy have tow or more wives, if that's what they all want, lets make it legal and cut out all these divorces NOW
2007-01-13 11:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by david s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are just that. stay in reality and enjoy the time between you and your other. If you stray and try something from your fantasies, then you will only dream of higher levels of fantasies and it will never end.
2007-01-13 11:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by El P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it should be enough other wise, there is some sexual problem psycology problem, mental problem ( like pedophilia, or any other desire that could be nasty and danger for own health ) that has to be resolved with some counseling and some extreme cases maybe with meds.
2007-01-13 11:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by JUST ME 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I think is sufficient or else the world will be full with ppl invaded by aids.
2007-01-13 11:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course not. Fantasies arent meant to be fulfilled. That's why they're called fantasies. ;)
2007-01-13 11:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Should be. If working together honestly does not work, maybe the marriage is not right.
2007-01-13 11:46:40 · answer #11 · answered by hybobber 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋