but he was mad about me and i think i dispointed his feeling becouse i was not in love with himat the begening , he knows but he was trying to make me love him , he end up picking up fights with me and being over gelause, and controlling after we married ,and start critisizing me i tolerete all that , but at one fight with him , he call it off , i loved him without knowing that during the time we spend toghether , i begged him to take me back he did and then he breack up with me , then he begged me to take him , i did and we spend a beautifull month , before he suddenly call it off without reson and left me with agony , what shall do ? why he did that if he really loved me ???
2007-01-13 03:40:33 · 9 answers · asked by noga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It doesn't sound like he really loved you. Or he did, in his own warped way. Sounds like you are better off.
2007-01-13 03:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sound like you were both babies.. adults don't argue, and fight, they negotiate problems without rage... grow up. If you're still married, get some help in negotiating, and anger management. Married couples who argue, scream and fight, live in constant resentment, and that isn't what marriage is. If it is over, accept it, and find out why your coping methods degrade to rage.
2007-01-13 04:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does'nt sound like either one of you really loves eachother.You need to realize that you cannot make someone love you and you cannot change someone.I would suggest that the two of you try just being friend's and you both move on.Good luck
2007-01-13 03:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if he really didn't love you. What to do now is to go back to school and learn how to write and spell. Then maybe you can get a paying job and find some guy there who will respect you for your mind as well as whatever.
2007-01-13 03:48:31 · answer #4 · answered by sashali 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're better off without him. Get the divorce finalized and move on.
2007-01-13 03:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your relationship is very rocky i would just leave him alone and find someone else that you are more compatiable with.
2007-01-13 03:47:53 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, he isn't worth your time.
Be grateful he is out of your life.
2007-01-13 03:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wasting my time.
2007-01-13 03:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wasting your time...........
2007-01-13 03:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋