I haven't talked to one of my best friends in over a year. He is a guy and I am a girl, and we have been friends at least 15 years (we met in junior high). He got married about 3 years ago. I was the best "man" in his wedding. The person he married was recently divorced with 3 children. She can be very nice, and I have always gotten along with her. However, she is a storyteller. She out and out makes up lies about all his friends and he believes them. He no longer talks to any of his friends or most of his family because of all the lies she has told. She does not work at all, everytime she gets a job she tells him guys are hitting on her, and he tells her to quit (no guys hit on her). If you try to call him, even on his cell phone she is the one that calls you back, not him. I really want to talk to my friend, but I can't even get a hold of him. What would you do? My husband says just forget about him, we can't deal with her dramas.
2007-01-13 03:19:06 · 6 answers · asked by Coneflower Craziness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
WHAT!?!?!?that's bs!!!!!!and that's not fair!!!you need to straight up tell him what you feel,and you need to tell his wife too. i no what your going through really the same thing happen to me.and I'd tell him straight up and that's what u need to do before it spirals out of control!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-13 03:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by Freckles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered getting your husband to call? Maybe you and your husband could meet with the guy and tell him what's happening. It sounds like his wife is very insecure and probably needs counselling... but that's not your call. Maybe he can do something about the situation once he clues in. Just expect some resistance on his part, it is his wife afterall. Be very kind and matter-of-fact when youspeak to him. Make sure he knows you're only concerned for him.
2007-01-13 11:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally feel your pain! I seem to know someone VERY similar and it is very sad! We just have to pray to God that one day this man will open his eyes to the fact that he is with a habitual liar and get rid of her. Only time will tell. Unfortunately until that time comes, IF it comes, we can only sit back and stay out of it.
Sorry for you, I really know this scenario very well!
2007-01-13 11:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by oracle1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back away, he believes her and nothing is going to stop that until he catches on to how she really is.
2007-01-13 11:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your hubbie is right.
seems she has your friend firmly under control. i dont think anything you could do will change that. so best leave him be.
for all you know he is happy the way it is.
2007-01-13 11:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by wolschou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He s' gonna find out the hard way.......hope he doesn't get Stuck with her ......believe me I know I found out .....the hard way.
2007-01-13 11:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by Smith & Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋