i know someone that i thought was a friend to me...but because of the way she react it seems that i am the only one that seems to think that i am her friend, but now im started to think im nothing. I feel used...i use to baby sit so she can go out with her husband, do her favors at work, take care of her patients while she sat around. And when i try to just send her an email or something nice, she just respond so cold, or ask me "dont you have nothing better to do than to send me stuff?" should i break the line and never approach her again, or what should i do? i know her for 7 yrs, but the friendship broke off somewhat when she wanted me to lie to get someone fired and i didnt want to do it.
2007-01-13 03:03:51 · 5 answers · asked by ♥angltouch♥ 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You sound like a good person with morals, so stop being a doormat and ditch her! I cannot believe a human being would use another humna being like that, it's so wrong! I'm sure you have other friends who appreciate you for who you are and would truly appreciate your friendship. Life is too short to put up with crap.
2007-01-13 03:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by PT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her! if that doesn't work, just get away! it's hard! i'm 13 and I've had this friend since I was 5. Now she is not supporting me in the things that i do and is being a big whinny baby! I'm going to take my advice and talk to her, but if nothing changes, our friendship will have to!
2007-01-13 03:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree w/ the person above me who used the word "door mat". that you offer friendship and cover for her is nice, but to not have her "share" with you is unfair. when she wanted to USE you to get someone fired, that was a red flag that she's not worthy of your friendship, and who knows... you might be her next "target."
2007-01-13 03:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the only time she thinks of you as a friend is when she wants somrthing from you.You deserve better than that!Forget about her!
2007-01-13 05:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by IAM2INSANE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should value yourself more than she values you and also you should not let the actions of a selfish person determine how you feel about yourself.
2007-01-13 03:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋