i like this guy...bt i cht to him on msn....i also cht 2 him on the fone but some of my other m8s dnt no....one of my m8s is far distanced cuzin wid him...n the other one likes him bt doesnt admit....and the rest dnt lyk him dey think his lame.....but i like him and its difficult because my best mate is his cousin also i dont no if he lyks me n he dnt chat 2 me as much wen i first met him...help me plz....itz tearing me apart
2007-01-13 02:45:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
poor girl. if he isn't talking 2 u as much then talk 2 him. if he avoids u then speak 2 him straight and tell him how your feeling. depending on what he says then react. if he tells u 2 shove off (maybe not in so many words) then 4get it. he is not worth it. no guy is. and then forget about the whole thing and move on. if he replies in the good way then b happy and get together. who cares if he's your best mates cousin? she'll get over it and so will u. if ur strong enough friends! good luck and follow ur instincts! and people stop picking on her cos she's typing in short form. if u can't read it that's your problem. stop picking on the poor girl! she probably can type properly (with the correct spelling) but chooses not 2. perhaps she was in a rush? stop being so awfully mean!
2007-01-13 10:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it difficult to read your question and extra information.
However if he chats to you with increasing regularity then I would start flirting with him more to 'test the water' because his chatting to you more, sounds like he is interested already. I personally don't think it matters too much that you know his cousin as long as you make an effort to keep all your friendships going whether it works out or not.
If he is chatting to you less, I would probably not wast my time with him (I know this is hard to do). If everyone seems to fancy him then he possibly knows it and has already got a big head over it. I have found it's the people that get overlooked in life that are often the ones worth investing your time in, they tend to have more of a personalty and are more interested in what they can offer you as a close friend and boyfriend rather then wanting to know what you can offer them.
If everyone likes him also their might be jealousy issues later down the line which can be real pain in the bum! best to go find your own star who adores you as much as you adore them because they will always be your best mate then.
:)
good luck
2007-01-13 11:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by Little miss naughty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he likes you as well, then do something about it! Your mates may not be too happy about it at first, but if they are your true friends they will understand.
If all three of you like him, well then it is up to him to choose, who he wants to be with, isn't it?
If he chooses you, they should not be mad at you. Just as well as if he likes one of you mates, you should understand.
Maybe you can talk to your mates as well and decide what to do about it, I know some people would just give the guy up because they would not want to ruin a friendship.
Bfs, gfs come and go, friends stay, so talk to them!
2007-01-13 11:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by NG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about your friends who don't like him, it's not them who have to date him, if things do go well! also, he's your friend's cousin, that could be a good thing, i doubt she would mind! maybe he doesn't chat to you as much because he's busy now, or because he likes you too and doesn't want to come on too strong? i think, just take a look at how he is with you over the next few weeks or so, and if all the signs look good, just tell him you like him and go from there! if not, it's not the end of the world and obviously wasn't meant to be! :)
2007-01-13 10:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you actually met him? If not then you are creating a fantasy. Next time you chat on the phone suggest you meet in person. If he says no forget him. if he agrees take things slowly; what your mates think is not important.
2007-01-13 10:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur wasting ur time if e dnt talk 2 u dat much nemre n if hes ya m8s couzin if she/he wuldnt lik the idea leave it be friends will always b der if u can trust em. im, sure u dnt wanna ruin ur friendship i hpe dis helps u x
2007-01-13 11:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by jedka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are supposedly our future generation, if you type like that what chance do we have??
I can't understand your question because of your stupid language, it takes no extra time to write in proper words and sentences and if you typed properly maybe you wouldn't get so much abuse.
2007-01-13 11:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by suckaslug 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its not a mobile phone you are using here. use proper words then see what happens. just tell him outright how you feel and wait for a response if you get nothing just bite the bullet and ask him then you will know. just tell your mates it might be easier in the long run.
2007-01-13 11:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe he just cant understand what your typing?
Why dont you ask him how he feels towards you, in the long run, it would be your relationship so unless your friends have good solid reasons for not liking him, then its your life - just do what you feel is best for you
2007-01-13 10:51:08 · answer #9 · answered by keeley 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your not writing a text message, write it in the good old english language that was taught to you in school. Then i will give you decent advice.
2007-01-13 10:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by Starbucks27 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋