I think I'm pregnant what to do?

Question

I think I'm Pregnant what should I do I don't no weather to have it or have a abulstion

Answer 1

If you're pregnant, you really shouldn't have an abortion. It's wrong to take a life just because you made a mistake. If you honestly don't want to be a mother, then please consider adoption as a good solution. Your baby is a person too.

Answer 2

Are you asking if you should have the baby or have an abortion (not abulstion)? Well, I really can't tell you what to do, and you haven't given much information about your situation...surprisingly enough, not all people dread pregnancies.

I don't think it would be fair to kill a life that you created by YOUR accident, so if you don't want the child or are not emotionally or finacially stable, consider putting the kid up for adoption. There are tons of loving couples who cannot have their own children who would be delighted to take care of your bundle of joy if you can't handle it right now.

First of all, just find out if you're pregnant...take a home pregnancy test, then get a trusted friend to take you to your local health clinic so you can make sure. There will also be doctors and counsellors there who can discuss your options with you and help you make a decision that's right for you. Good luck!

Answer 3

Are you married to the father of your child? Is he going to marry you? Is he going to support you? Do you have a new partner that will support you? Do you have a job which will pay you well during maternity leave? Does your partner have a job? Have you got your own place to live? Do you want a baby now in your life? If you're answering no to these questions, do yourself a favour and get an abortion sooner rather than later. It is much better to have an abortion earlier on in pregnancy. I'm worried that you might feel uneasy about having an abortion ("it's not just a bundle of cells, it's a real person" blah blah blah) and put it off for as long as possible, if you realise that you cannot raise this child by yourself. Late abortions can be risky and difficult to obtain. If you didn't plan this pregnancy let it go, wait until you do want children and can support them properly.

Answer 4

Take a pregancy test to make sure then tell the babys father and discuss it with him.

Whats an abulstion? If you mean abortion then read what Ive wrote below and If an abulstion is a thing can someone please tell me what it is? lol

I don't see how anyone could have an abortion...if you do think of it this way...youre killing a tiny little baby inside you. Id definately have it. I had my first child when I was 14 and Im soo glad i had her. My mum was also VERY supportive.

I would definately not have an abortion. If you're worrying that you aren't ready for this child then I would still have him/her but maybe put him/her up for adoption? Think of all the family's who want children but cannot have them and then think what an abortion does. Kills the child. I adopted my second child and
I have no regrets. I was worried that I would not be able to bond the same with my adopted child as I already have a child but it was amazing.

Anyway Im not gonna tell you what to do because its your own life and who am I to tell you what to do but I would definately keep him/her.

You have a few months to decide what to do but do NOT rush into anything. Read a few books on pregnancy then maybe decide.

Good luck whatever you decide to do and have fun xx

Answer 5

Firstly go to a chemist and pick get a pregnancy test. read the instructions carefully, not all negative tests are accurate. Alternatively I believe you can go to a 'walk in clinic' or your own doctors and have a test done there.

Then you have a few months to read and find out about the different options available to you. You can go to your doctor and ask then for advice and try to talk to someone close to you (maybe a trusted friend or relative) because if you are pregnant, you will need support, even if it's to help you understand the information you have gathered. Neither decision will be easy. And in my opinion decisions such as these should not be rushed into.

All the best!

Answer 6

First of all, take the test. Take one of those home pregnancy test. Then talk to the father if you are pregnant. Discuss whether or not you both are ready for this child. If you are, have the baby. If not, well, you have options. You can give the child up for adoption to a family who cannot have children. Or you can have an abortion. Whatever you decide, I hope that you find happiness in that decision.
If you are not pregnant, but you missed your period, it could be due to stress or a change in your cycle.

Answer 7

What is an Abulstion???? I assume you mean an abortion! And what has the weather got to do with it. Firstly you must take a pregnancy test, then you will have to decide. But only you can make the decision WHETHER to keep it or not, you dont mention your circumstances or age. But it may be something you live to regret if you terminate.

Answer 8

Make sure you are pregnant by taking a pregnancy test...talk to the father if you can...think realistically...can you care for this baby physically and financially...can you love him/her...will you be able to provide a happy home...and lots of other things...adoption is another option.

Answer 9

Abortion is not the answer. Seek counseling. There are so many loving people out there who desperately want children. Please, if you can't raise this child, make adoption your priority. You'll be happier with this decision in the long run. I know people who have had abortions and had a hard time daeling with it later.

EX. What would my baby look like?

Today (or around today) would have been my childs birthday.

My baby would be __ years old right now.

Seek counseling. You need a professional to help you make this life altering decision.

Answer 10

Test or there are free clinics all over the place that will give you a free test. as far as abortion, well there are millions of couples out there looking to adopt a baby so I would say if you really do not want it then please give another couple a chance to have a baby. And not only that they will usually pay for all your medical treatment and clothes or anything else needed.