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Question

Im 21 and i feel my communication skills not good in order talk with diff people everyday? any tips

Answer 1

well, be positive yourself, always think that you can speak well like others too...sometime listening skill is more important than communicating, try to listen to your friends, you will have find ways to talk and communicate with them, they will be happy too when they know you are really listen to them.

Answer 2

Depends on the context. If you are referring to casual conversation with a client at the reception desk - that is small talk: "How are you?" " Did you see the Blazer game?" stuff like that. Be aware of what is going on around you. The news events and the sporting things. This will give you conversation starters.

If it is more time consuming - at a dinner or a snack break in a conference, then ask questions: "Have you got a hobby?" or "Where did you go for vacation this year?"

People LOVE to talk about themselves. If the question you ask is good, they will talk for ages, with just a few "Oh really?" and "Uh huh" from you.

Now, if we are getting into a relationship with a person (either gender) then you will find that there should be interesting things to talk about anyway but the above ideas still apply. Maybe more personally challenging "Are you for or against abortion?" and "Did your mother ever take you to the ballet?" These questions will start some concepts that will end up with disagreements maybe - no matter. A freindship can stand a few disagreements, but if that is all there is - this person is not a friend anymore and you can end the relationshjip - kindly please.

Answer 3

Well when talking with different people you dont want to offend them in any way and seem like you are to intrested in there personal life even if you are you shouldnt ask intrested also ALWAYS say positive stuff you dont want to seem to negitive.