why people get angry very fast?

Answer 1

Mostly beacuse they are angry with themselves and 2. they are angry on somethin else. dont hate us we are sorry

Answer 2

Great question, and one most people are clueless about. Understanding it can relieve a lot of stress in dealing with anger and angry people.

When events happen and we become aware of them (input received), there are two stages in the process of evaluation. One seems automatic and instantaneous- this is the first one, or the reaction. The second is the considered one, which includes thought and decision. It often seems that the second one doesn't get applied at all.

So where does the first one come from? It is not the actual input- it's the result of a kind of measurement, an instantaneous interpretation of what the input means.

A simpler parallel is the everday process of recognition. When you see a tree for example, you don't have to think or ask yourself what is is, you instantly recognize it categorically. If you wanted to know what specific kind of tree, then you might need to consciously compare characteristics of the tree to your memory of other trees to label it. As you do that, you don't compare it to cars or appliances- because your instant recognition of it as a tree is controlling the options, and those items aren't compatible.

Emotional reactions are a bit more complicated, but similar. They come from a subconscious function that applies certain tests to the input and immediately labels them, perhaps as an insult or compliment.

The rules of these tests are not the same for everyone, they are in effect the fundamental principles that make up your character- they are your foundation, and they control the way your thinking process works. Not What you think, but HOW you think. The how limits the what, and that closes out things that aren't compatible

Because these fundamentals are consistent within each person, you see patterns, or fairly consistent reactions to a given type of input in each person. This process also controls what that individual can see as possible options in the second evaluation process, and thus the logical or considered response is usually just an extension of the reactive one.

Instant anger is usually not valid anger. It just indicates that an event has tripped some trigger in the individuals psyche, and that the person has not learned how to manage their own thinking constructively.

A mind programmed with legitimate fundamentals and trained to think critically may still have an instant anger response, but it's not likely to be inappropriate. Unfortunately, this the exception rather than the rule.

So how does a person with habitual inappropriate anger responses break the habit? By reprogramming the fundamentals controlling their mind. While that process is relatively simple to explain, it is very difficult to do by choice and usually requires professional help.

Answer 3

THERE ARE DIFFERENT REASONS FOR GETTING ANGRY - Anger is caused by Annoyance, Irritation, Fury, Rage, Rivalry, Agression, Hostility, Opposition, Resentment, Bitterness, Dislike, Hurt Feelings, Fear, Rejection, Impulsiveness, Lack of Maturity, Lack of Understanding, Lack of Patience, Lack of Perseverance, Nervousness, Hyperactiveness, Hypersensiitivity and refusal to give a person another chance.

It is up to us to be in control of our emotions. We must be sensitive to the feelings of others. We must be more understanding and caring. We must try to look at a situation from the other person's point of view - wear his/her shoes and ask why - calm down analyse and have an amicable approach to life. Make love your aim. Love is easy to spell but very hard to express or follow. If you have love for life, nature, plants and especially animals - it increases tolerance. Try sitting at a seashore when you are furious and watch the waves and see how the sea calms you down, soothes your nerves, gives you inner peace. Do you have time to stop and spend some time with nature - listen to the waves - appreciate the work of Gd's creation - divert your mind and look at the bright side of life and you will find the world a better place to live in.

Answer 4

The get angry because they want things to happen their way, they like to be the centre of attention, they like to be in control of the situation, and they get angry because they have a low self esteem, they have a lot of unresolved issues within, and they have been repressing anger, or have not been assertive at the right time, hence repressed anger is like poison, it oozes out easily, in everything they do, they are usually grumpy, easily provoked, or even their faces look as if they are angry.

Answer 5

they get angry when they have some pressure or irritation in the subconscious mind or inner body. they are called stress. people who keeps a lot of secrets, people who keeps their sins. People who are doing something against their beliefs. People who has high cholesterol, high blood pressure, has pain.

Answer 6

Me = type A stress

Answer 7

Cuz people can do alot of irritating things even faster.

Answer 8

They were molestered as a child

Answer 9

They have no patience or consideration for others.

Answer 10

I won't suffer fools gladly. That's why.