I think you need to support her decision. She has probably spent a long time considering this move, and is probably very sad about leaving you all.
There is a chance she still may stay but don't make it more difficult for her, because she probably loves you all. Make sure you tell her how great of a teacher you think she is, who knows, that may make her stay!
But most of all, show your support if you love her!
Best of luck!
2007-01-13 01:00:41
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answered by Denny T 2
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Your first thought is; you want to keep her as your teacher because you love her right? If you truly love her, then let her go! Apparently she is leaving because she feels it's an opportunity she can't pass up. If she stayed behind just because you love her and you knowing what she would be passing up to stay, would you feel any better???? I don't think so, so let her go even though it hurts and know that she will be carrying you guys with her in her heart and that's the best place to be. There are ways of staying in touch to make sure you don't lose her completely, so stay focused on that and let her make the transition smoothly without guilt of leaving you so she can give all of herself to being what made you love her in the first place, an excellent teacher who really cares about her students. If you let her go in this way, even though it will be hard, your hearts will swell in the knowledge that you put her feelings first and believe me, there is no better feeling than to know that you did the right thing no matter how hard it was to say goodbye. I'm pretty sure she'll leave knowing that you love her and was proud to have had the opportunity to teach such a wonderful group of kids.
2007-01-13 09:18:22
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answered by KYrooted 1
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I'm not sure what the final part of your question is...
However, I'm a teacher, and if my students cried over my leaving, I would make sure to leave an address where we could correspond every now and then, as a class and former teacher.
I would write something that could be read to the whole class.
Other than that, take the lessons she gave the class and pass them on. The greatest thing a teacher can do is to have their lessons continue to enrich the lives of generations beyond when the lesson was taught.
2007-01-13 09:04:36
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answered by doublewidemama 6
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You just have to let her go as hard as that it is and allow her to pursue her dreams.
A little over a year ago I had to leave a dream job and tons of co-workers that I was so close with. I did it so that I could move to a different country and get married to the love of my life. Now, of course they were sad when I left and definitely didn't want me to go, but they had to let me go. It was the only way.
If you really care about a person you'll allow them to seek their dreams and find them, even if it involves them moving away from you. Unfortunately saying good-bye is a part of life. Whether it's having to say good-bye to a person who is making a geographical move or saying good-bye to a loved one who is dying.... this is all stuff that we all are going to have to deal with at some point in our lives. Good luck.
2007-01-13 09:03:43
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answered by ? 5
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Let them go keep in contact. I have lost a lot of teachers over the years, but I kept in touch with them, and it has created a wonderful broad horizon of knowledge from all over the country, and wonderful support. In this day and age of email...Contact is so easy to maintain. Teacher to friend is a great thing.
2007-01-13 09:01:05
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answered by kriltzen 2
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You can't control her, or what she does; I'm sure she understands you'll miss her, and I'm sure she will miss you, but in the end, she needs to do what she needs to do.
2007-01-13 09:01:44
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answered by Anonymous
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nothing. its her decision. you cannot stop her. i know it painful bcause i had one but nothing can be done.
2007-01-13 09:01:33
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answered by miss mary quite contrary 3
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take antidepressants.
2007-01-13 09:00:37
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answered by Asher Madan 3
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