help meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
2007-01-13 00:57:25 · 14 answers · asked by jennifer u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ahh the temptations of suicide.
Dont I know her well.
I have been there and I understand not wanting to live anymore.
The challenge is to live until circumstances bring the joy of living to your door,
And it Will happen my friend, because everything will change.
That is the only sure thing
2007-01-16 18:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jennifer, find out why your life is SO bad, and try to change, or eliminate the things that are making you miserable. It won't be easy, nor quick, but over time, it CAN be done. Life is not all bad, and not all good. We just have to face the bad, and try to change it to work better for us. Talk to a friend, parent, sibling, pastor, but SOMEBODY! Don't keep these things all bottled up inside. Good Luck!!
2007-01-13 01:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this:
1- Don't care about what other people think wether you're a loser or something big.
2- It's not the end of the world if you're unmarried or viceversa.
3- Don't give up easily.
4- Never underestimate your power.
5- All the people in the world are happy except for you? nah ...think about it.
2007-01-13 01:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by psstt.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who ever said life was easy. ;o( I've had a lot of good times in life but it seems sometimes I have had more bad times in it. It's easy during those bad times to think, "why am I even here." ;o( but then you come to those good times and realize the answer. ;o) Everyone goes thru these times and you just have to accept them and do the best you can to get thru them. Whether it be to talk to someone who's close to you, or go somewhere where your alone and scream. ;o) Find your own way with dealing with these times without hurting yourself. Things will get better. good luck to you. ;o)
2007-01-13 01:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jennifer sometimes we all get to where you are now, but in 6 months time this period of your life can be better. The thing is you are trying to make everything around you work without tapping into GOd and letting him guide you and lead you. This is why you are at a cross roads now. All it takes is making a choice.
CLose your eyes for a few minutes and hold your head in your hands and speak to Lord Jesus. He is sitting right there besides you and wants you to cast all your cares upon him and to let him become a reality in your life. Tell him everything.
This really works. Ask God to take control of your life, your feelings and your emotions, your selfish desires, your anger and your hurt and pain. Take a piece of paper and make a list of everything thats bothering you then lay your hand on that paper and tell GOd everything. He knows it already but he needs you to actively communicate with him. Ask him to give you beauty for the ashes, the oil of joy for the mourning, and the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness. He will. He will bless you, but he is trying to get your attention. Give it to him.
Find a church and go there and speak to the pastor or his wife about your decision to ask God to become a real part of your life. When you do that they will lead you and guide you along with God and help you through the tough patches. Pllease buy or take out of a library the book by John Maxwell called BE ALL THAT YOU CAN BE and also the book THe Purpose driven life. In fact start with the second book mentioned. It is written by Rick Warren and I tell you it is awesome. GOd wants to heal you and help you. Why dont you let him. Stand up and be accountable to yourself. DOnt think of death. It doesnt solve things. That is a spirit that will do anything to destroy you and we both know where that comes from. God loves you. he knew you even before you were born. he hand picked you for a purpose and you need to find what that is. Read Psalm 139. God needs you to read that, then turn to Ezekiel 16, verses 6 - 14 and read about where God found you and what he is going to do for you. You are so special to him. Please dont quit. he has so much for you and you need him now more than ever.
My heart cries oput for you and I will pray for you. Jennifer please do this for yourself. You can contact me at jensen2453@hotmail.com God bless you. I will write to you and help you overcome your problems as best as I can. I am not from America but from Africa, but I am willing to be there for you.
2007-01-13 01:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's going to be alright. Just let time pass.
Life is not fair but we live everyday and try to get through with the hope of what tomorrow might bring. Learn to put your trust in tomorrow - trust that you will feel better and know that tomorrow has time on its side.
2007-01-16 14:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lulu78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a pro by any means, but i think suicide is the easy way out. anyone can put a bullet in their head.. only the strong survive. you have to deal with your problems head-on. it's tough, no doubt but if you try to stay positive some good things WILL happen. BE STRONG!!! good luck and much luv.
2007-01-13 01:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by houligan73 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life isn't easy for anyone.You have to learn to cope with all of lifes ups and downs.You have to work hard to make Your life go as well as posible.If everything was easy,You would'nt appreciate it.
2007-01-13 01:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by phockit47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try and find a counselor to talk to. Maybe your parents or friends as well. Don't give up. Everything gets better with time. If you need someone to talk to my email is on my profile. You can email me.
2007-01-13 01:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is hard for everyone. If I can help let me know. Sometimes a friend to talk to helps.
2007-01-13 01:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by Wild Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋