i.e-If I'm scruffy,clean,fat,fit,tired-looking,awake-looking,etc-is this a sign of the "inner me?"
2007-01-13 00:55:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
not always im a big girl and think i come across as a scary person but in reality i am a wimp i would be the first to run and hide and i am a sensitive person
2007-01-13 00:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by mothertiggy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe most people wear many masks. Emotions are also involved. The "inner you" or "inner me" can be thinking and feeling one thing and the outer reflections can be feeling or thinking some totally different. I think more and more people are shielding themselves; not really wanting anyone to know the real person they are. Most of the time; it ends up as a dissapointment with both parties; no one can live up to expectations.
2007-01-13 01:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by scrapper723 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is about the same as saying that you CAN judge a book by looking just at it's cover!
I know of a fair number of rather good looking guys and gals, who, in reality are rather shallow and mean as friends!
Where you need to look to judge a person is in the eyes: they invariably reveal a lot more.
Being thin or fat is NOT relevant to be a good person!
2007-01-13 01:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by seekayess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Whether it is who your really are, or who you want people to see it is definitely a reflection of you.
Some people have a natural elegance to them. No matter what I wear I sink into my clothes. I may be very fashionable, or trying to be, but I have a way of making everything I wear very lived in. ie scruffy
2007-01-13 01:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by kriltzen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what you are on the outside isn't necessarily what you are on the inside. you choose who you really want to be. if you tell yourself and believe you are the same on the inside as on the outside, well, that's your prerogative. however, there are a lot of cases when the outside isn't really like what's on the inside. there's a tendency wherein you use the outside things to hide what's inside (perhaps to protect yourself in a way). so, basically, it's all a matter of how you see yourself.
2007-01-13 01:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by changing_sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not always. You shall meditate more and read some C.G Jung.
2007-01-13 01:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by Rosebonbonsmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always; that's why they say, "don't judge a book by its cover".
2007-01-13 01:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not it isn't. There are many shades to our characters, and they cannot all be portrayed at once.
2007-01-13 01:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should not judge people by how they look
2007-01-13 01:59:00 · answer #9 · answered by jackie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am me...i sit on my @rse just as you do...and i am happy...life is good....so what you see is what you get...scars and all...x
2007-01-13 01:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋