Aquarius Man, Virgo Woman?

Question

I've been best friends with an Aquarius man for many years now. I know how unpredictable and flighty he can be. I accept him the way he is. Being a Virgo though, I am a perfectionist. I have my ideals on how things should go. We're best friends, no doubt but I want more. I know that he is commitment phobic and I don't know how to get him to commit. Is it even possible. We love each other but we've never been intimate. He is shy and I am reserved. Are we better off just being friends?

Answer 1

Aquarius & Virgo

When Virgo and Aquarius join together in a love match, they bring out either the best or worst in one another. Virgo has a more rigid, theory-oriented approach to life. The poetic Aquarian approach, on the other hand, knows nothing of the scientific world. But these two lovers may actually thrive on their differences; they grow together as they learn about one another.

Aquarius tends to be passionate and temperamental while Virgo operates more methodically, and with little fuss. Virgo is very organized and levelheaded. Aquarius is modern and finds routine unthinkable. Virgo will find Aquarius exciting but may become annoyed trying to probe this artist's mind. Aquarius will be upset by Virgo's criticism, but will find the solid base Virgo provides very appealing.

Virgo is ruled by Mercury and Aquarius is ruled by Saturn and Uranus. Both Mercury and Uranus are androgynous energies while Saturn is a cool, traditional energy. Uranus is about all things odd and atypical. Mercury is communicative and focuses on organization and efficiency, all of which are important to Virgo. Saturn is about hard work and discipline to achieve goals while Uranus centers on forward thinking. Virgo will try to introduce organization, rationality and comfort into Aquarius's life. Aquarius can inspire Virgo to be more aloof, to dig their heels in and stand up for what they believe.

Virgo is an Earth Sign and Aquarius is an Air Sign. Aquarius moves through life seeking pure spiritual enlightenment, while Virgo is more intellectual. Virgos seek the 'how' and 'why' of a situation, while Aquarians simply focus on what tickles their fancy, practical or not, and usually ask 'what next?' At times each partner may find it difficult to understand the other's perspective. Conflicts can arise in this relationship if becomes obsessed with realizing the perfect relationship or Aquarius seems too aloof. Both partners must appreciate and respect one another's view of the world, and see that they have a lot to learn from their partner.

Virgo is a Mutable Sign and Aquarius is a Fixed Sign. Aquarius can be unreasonable, opinionated and stubborn. Both partners are very passionate and intent when working toward their goals. Virgo adapts well to any social situation. Virgo is pleased to help Aquarius as long as their efforts are appreciated. Conflicts are rare, and are usually resolved by more Virgo's accommodating nature than by any concessions on Aquarius's part. If the two understand they're working together for a common goal, it's much easier for them to reach it. Virgo is more realistic than Aquarius will be more willing to budge to avoid a heated fight.

What's the best aspect of the Virgo-Aquarius relationship? It's that when they come together, their combined ambition drives them to do miraculous deeds. This relationship tends to be informative, enlightening and a pleasure to both participants.

Answer 2

Aquarius Man Virgo Woman

Answer 3

First - throw away all those BS about Virgo Aquarius etc... It does not apply to modern day relationships. It is too generalizing and cubby-holing people.

Concentrate on relationship. He is shy? Ok, come out and ask.
You are reserved? You break out of the mould. You can't clap with one hand. Someone had to make a move. Since you took the initiative to ask in this Y!A, you do the honor.

It is an absolute waste of time to believe in all this nonsense about astrology. Throw it right out the window. Turn a fresh page face the sunshine and take in a deep breath of fresh air.

Answer 4

Probably. Aquarians are very free-spirited, independent and committment-phobe. Best way to get an Aquarius is to run away. Sorta. The more space you'll give him, the closer he'll move. Oh and friends come before lovers to Aquarians, so if you want him, you'll have to be his best friend before being his lover.

Answer 5

my friend is a virgo and she was in a relationship with a scorpio for 2 years it was great by the sounds of things!

Answer 6

Although you approach problems and ideas from different perspectives, you have a good mental rapport. Virgo focuses on specific details, and prefers to specialise in a certain area, while Aquarius takes a wider, more global view and looks for interrelationships in a large system, without as much focus on any particular area of specialisation. Virgo is more concerned with effective and precise application of plans, and helps Aquarius to practically apply ideas. You make a good team in social or intellectual pursuits. Your relationship may be a bit cool or formal, however, and hopefully there are other astrological factors (as described elsewhere in this report) to provide warmth, affection and romantic or sexual attraction.

A major difference in your temperaments is that Aquarius, deep down, is rebellious toward authority and rather indifferent to convention and tradition. Aquarius has a taste for excitement and needs to experiment and shake things up once in a while. Virgo is more careful, and feels much more comfortable and safe following a secure, tried-and-true path. Virgo loves order, while Aquarius disrupts order so that something new can happen.

Also, Virgo is more introspective and serious about self-improvement than Aquarius, who is interested in social improvement, but is often out of touch with their own feelings and inner life.

Lively exchanges of ideas are common between the two of you. Fortunately, you understand each other well, but unfortunately you sometimes have opposite opinions and perspectives on an issue. Despite your differences, you work together very well in practical matters, planning, organising, developing or communicating ideas, and your differing view points are not likely to be a serious problem.

As a couple, you will have many unusual experiences, and a lot of friends who are unique, interesting, creative, and quite different from one another. You could gather a "family" around you that is quite unlike a traditional or "normal" family, including adopted relatives and close friends. A certain openness, acceptance of deviance from the norm, and willingness to learn from unexpected sources will be essential in this relationship. Being able to flow with change and live in the present moment will be necessary too, as there is a certain, ongoing movement in your relationship that precludes settling down to any established routine for very long.

There is a magnetic, rather intense attraction between you, and it is very likely that you will go through many intense challenges and emotionally powerful experiences together, even if your relationship is not a permanent one.

This is a "hot" relationship. Sexual and physical attraction is strong, tending to lead to hot pursuit of each other. Subtlety is lacking and one, or both, of you may feel your approach to sexuality is too aggressive or insensitive. You also enjoy competing with each other and working hard together. Competitive sports, games, and outdoor activities are good outlets. You must strive to avoid conflict because the aggressive quality of your relationship can easily flare into anger and hostility.

Issues such as tidiness and neatness at home, use of abusive or foul language, choice of foods, tastes in music and decor, approaches towards raising children, etc. come to the fore. At times you will come to an impasse and feel that you cannot come to an agreement on these issues. Aquarius, in particular, may become very frustrated by some of Virgo's deeply ingrained, personal habits. If your ethnic backgrounds or upbringings are very different, this problem can be severe. If both of you can be tolerant, open-minded, accepting of shortcomings in your mate, and willing to learn new attitudes, you can turn potentially frustrating situations into opportunities to mature and grow emotionally.

Aquarius's philosophical, political, and religious beliefs will undergo some major changes as a result of this relationship, particularly if the relationship is a long-term, serious one. In trying to adapt to Virgo's views, Aquarius discovers the value in new perspectives and ideas that previously were not considered.

Virgo often limits, burdens, or frustrates Aquarius without intending to or realising it. There is a conflict here between Virgo's needs for security, stability, and order versus Aquarius's desire for freedom, mobility, and expansiveness. How much, and in what ways, you spend money is probably a particularly thorny issue for you. Virgo is more careful and restrictive or disapproving of Aquarius's more relaxed, extravagant, or liberal approach.

Also, Virgo often seeks to control or dominate Aquarius, and Aquarius may even take a subordinate role in the relationship for a time, accepting Virgo's "discipline". Over time, however, Aquarius may find Virgo's subtle (or not so subtle!) criticism or constraints to be devitalising and draining. And Aquarius, on the other hand, can make Virgo feel like a perpetual wet blanket or miser.

Working together or going into business as equal partners is unlikely to work out well for you. It's best if you can respect one another's differing approaches and not seek to impose your own values or styles on one another.

Answer 7

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