I'm a 20 years old boy,But I have a few friends,I always alone,I don't know how can I begin a relationship,in fact I shy! I even don't have any friends from opposit sex,I do't like this situation,I become depressed these days,How can I have a lot of friends??
2007-01-13 00:35:20 · 10 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
chill man ... be a man ... u must not think so much just live the life the way it comes and talk to all the people u want to ... dont think of what they r going to thing abount u or how will they react... just live happily
2007-01-13 01:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by vandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you don't need a lot of friends. Sure, its good, but it is better to have two or three very good friends, than 50 of fake-ones. Trust me, I know. Don't be depressed, and try not to be so shy. Make some female friends, tell them you are shy, and they will understand. How can u begin a relationship? Well, it depends on the people. Talk to them.No fear. That way you will practice not being shy. There is a special person for everyone, and I'm sure you are going to find one! Hope I helped.
2007-01-13 08:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Joka B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don,t have alot of friends either, i dont, go to work though, but i think you should not prejudge people if you do, sme are nice i have done this and try to get a good book on confidance, you need to find interests and things where you will meet similar minded people read joyce meyer approval addiction and www.joycemeyer.org she has some very good books. Their will be people who will love you but not everyone will, because everyone has that i hope you get over this and enjoy your life better try to get out and join in things and you will meet nice people all the best
2007-01-13 09:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by denise g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be depressed it's gonna be OK .... all what you have to do is just say hi when you see some one or find your self in a proper situation to talk to some one just say " hi .. I'm --- ..." then the other one will do the same so now you know her , so next time you see her say " hi (her name) ".. " how are you? "... it's going to be easy if you just don't think much.. i used to have the same problem, but it's gone now .. and what i told you is all what i did
so just be you.......Good Luck
2007-01-13 09:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
like u i am a shy girl and eveyone suggested me that get over your shyness i know its difficult coz i too havent got over it but its fine the person from whom u wanna to start friendship know his/her interests talk about that matter and be frank and please dont feel depressed about so small thing u will have many friends u stupid u should not feel depresed idiot
SORRY TO USE THOSE 2 WORDS BUT I AM FRANK WITH EVERY ONE AND KNOW WHAT I AM YOUNGER THAN U
THATS WHY AGAIN SORRY
GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD LUCK
2007-01-13 10:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by sona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to read this article http://nitzitry.notlong.com/ i found, will be useful also has info on different treatments and should help with your depression. And some natural remedies which will help cheer people up.
2007-01-16 19:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by mikelo123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i will be your friend.and u can try yahoo chat to find some friends but becareful who u talk to .p.s. if u want me to be your friend email me at hoganccc@yahoo.com GoOd LuCk
2007-01-13 09:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by corey h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a 19 years old girl, you must to try to find a new friend in opossite sex, i believe if you disappear your shy you'll get more friends than me ok!!!!! : )
2007-01-13 09:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by Ajeng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to overcome your shyness and approach a person you like to be friend..and always be yourself..
2007-01-13 08:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by yui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to control your shyness. Just be yourself.
2007-01-13 08:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋