I feel like I am growing apart from m bf.. I think I love him, im scared to break it off, I wanna work at the relationship but im scared of failure and I dont wanna lose him.
I find myself biting his head of for no reason, and I cant chill out, im always stressing.
What am I ment to do? Whats a good way to try and take the relaionship with less stress.. I hope I made sense
2007-01-13 00:33:52 · 6 answers · asked by ca4btts 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Time out! Time to re-evaluate this relationship. Have a chat with your man tell him your emotions are a bit haywire and you need time to sort it out. Acknowledge your behaviors good and bad. Evaluate the pluses and negatives of this relationship and identify your stresses. Once identified deal with them . Get medical help if needed. Relationships need to be worked upon but by both sides are you doing the work of two? A relationship that does not work is not a failure it is simply something that was not meant to be. be kinder to yourself as well
2007-01-13 00:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time you are free (remember i said free, not while doing some work or while travelling) sit back with a mug of hot chocolate (can be substituted with tea cofffee or anything that relaxes you) and think about all those time when you were strssed. what was it that you were worried about? Did your boy friend do something that made you feel bad? or was it some one else and you were just taking out your anger on him. You said you think you love him. what does tis statement mean? are you not sure whether you love him or not or you are thinking of break up but dont want to do so because you are scared how he will react? think about all this. and you can mail me your answers. then i will be able to help you better.
2007-01-13 00:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all try to get rid of the fear of failure. It may sabbotage your relationship. Take it easy and talk to your b/f about working on things. It sounds like you need to get a handle on your emotions first and stop biting his head off for no particular reason. You need to learn to relax and enjoy things when they are good and work through the bad. If you are willing to do the work the relationship will survive.
2007-01-13 01:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all you need to chill out. dont stress about it enjoy it. dont stress or what you are scared of will happen you will lose him. just take your time and again enjoy best of luck...
2007-01-13 00:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, it sounds like you need some time for yourself. it's not fair to him that he sees your bad side too often. if you want to save this relationship, take some time away from him. and use the time with him wisely. make sure that the time you spend with him is enjoyable for both of you. otherwise you'll lose him.
2007-01-13 01:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your insecure, I would suggest you need to mature a little more before you take your relationship to the next level.
2007-01-13 00:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋