That's pretty tough. You might see a counselor. They often do thought restructuring and something called re-story where you go through the event in your mind but change so you look at it differently.
2007-01-13 00:27:45
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answered by poorsias 4
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you can never be someone else. The important thing is to be as much like YOURSELF as you possibly can. That's the problem with most people - they think that the solution to everything is to change who they are. Instead, the thing to do is to LEARN who you are, to figure out what things you do that are inconsistent with who you REALLY are inside. That's what problems are - things you do that go directly against beliefs you hold or feelings you have.
You can't change your thoughts by thinking. In fact, you shouldn't even try. Focus on figuring out who you are and what makes you happy. Then, figure out what beliefs you have or behaviors you've learned, that came from outside, from your upbringing or culture or training or whatever, that are not what YOU really want or what makes YOU really happy. Then, get rid of them. The thoughts and personality will follow naturally.
Unless you have depression. If there's a chemical imbalance that is affecting your thinking, you should go to a psychiatrist.
2007-01-13 10:17:07
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answered by Janelle 4
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By doing mantra you can control your thoughts - by controlling your thoughts you can achieve the highest you are capable of - if at that stage you still want to emulate the talent of someone else you need to study the results of their talent and work towards achieving what you want. That you are attracted to what they achieve would indicate you are already capable of achieving that yourself - by the time you can do what they can do you may find you can do even better. Either way you can make it a fulfilling challenge - all the best!
2007-01-13 00:55:14
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answered by jrm 2
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You want to remake yourself into someones else's personality ... not sure that's good .. if you don't achieve their results you'll be disappointed anyway.
Why not improve on the traits you have and incorporate some of the traits you like ... being yourself is the only way to show your true talents.
2007-01-13 00:39:56
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answered by Chele 5
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I think you can acheive this by redirecting your thoughts as they come into your mind to imitate that which you want to be like. After doing this for a time it will become more natural. Anything can be achieved !
2007-01-13 00:35:30
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answered by Anonymous
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think in something you liked most, like a sunset in the beach, eating ice cream, summer walkings, i dont know something nice and lovely.
2007-01-13 00:35:03
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answered by dancingwiththestars 4
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Think differently
2007-01-13 00:27:32
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answered by Anonymous
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some light over self-hypnosis http://imdewmess.blogspot.com
also search for articles ove DAMARTANTRA
2007-01-13 00:34:47
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answered by sachkehtahu 4
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u can`t change ur thoughts coz u have no brain/.lol
2007-01-13 00:40:33
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answered by bentonia2 1
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