and they had dug your heart out with a dull rusty spoon.. would you .. acknowledge then even existed or stop and say hello?
2007-01-12 23:50:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
free girl.. they tried to apologize.. but why wait 13 years?
2007-01-12 23:58:14 · update #1
I wouldn't talk to them...
2007-01-13 00:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Man, it wasn't just a dull, rusty spoon, it was a dull, rusty grapefruit spoon that was handed down to me from my grandmother. But, 19 years later, I stop and say hello every chance I get. For one, we were both young then, and since her, I have had many a great (and some not so great) relationships, and am now in a very long term one that is far better than the one I had with her. Secondly, I have improved myself greatly in that time, while she has kind of stayed in that same place, and it is kind of nice to rub it in, and make her know what she walked out on.
Long Live Jambi
2007-01-12 23:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'd properly look them up and down and say something like "wow the years have not been good to you have they" then walk off like I owned the world. It may be petty but I would have been waiting 13 years to get them back for what they did and if I had the chance to make them feel pathetic then I would take that chance!!
2007-01-13 00:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and I would have a ton of questions and want answers too.
Sometimes things aren't always as they appeared.
at least by confronting the person you can either feel vindicated about your feelings or proven wrong. either way you have cleared the air and can now put complete closure on that part of your past!
Did I shock you too much DUDE with this serious answer!!!?????
Have a terrific Saturday!
2007-01-13 00:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by Penny Mae 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Knowing me, I'd probably stop and say hello and try to play up how well my life has been the last 13 years without them...then go home....
2007-01-12 23:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by jcdorner 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Living well is the best revenge. I would just barely acknowledge their being there and would act cool and indifferent. No need to hurt back as your so much better off w/o them.
2007-01-13 00:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by sideways 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it takes alot of time for people to realize their mistakes and who people are 13 years ago are not who they may be today everything i want in life today i already had with may ex and blew it however i don't think i would ever go back accept her apology and move on sometimes people need acceptance to move forward its part of therapy in AA or Na apologizing to the people you have hurt.
2007-01-13 00:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by nicole l 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say hello, and when the conversations start about life, that person how much better life is since they've been gone..
2007-01-12 23:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say hello...talk to them for a bit...then say good-bye. But maybe that person wants to apologize for his/her bad actions? Give them the chance...
2007-01-12 23:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by Free Girl Now 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell, I'd be really scared if my Aunt Mabel contacted me after 13 yrs as she has been dead for 20.
2007-01-12 23:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by DAVE 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably because I have learned over the years that it is better to forgive and forget than hold a grudge.
2007-01-12 23:53:45 · answer #11 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋