what if the person u love says after a month that sorry she lied to you . shhe already had a bf. but she wants u as a friend, and she really like u as a friend. that what happened to me. i asked her like a million times if there was something. but she said no . and i really feel in love with her and now after a month she is like i am sorry i can't lie to u anymore..
she really hurted me ,
but she says she is really soory for lying to me and stuff.. what shall i do , friends.
i hope this never happens with anyone of you.
2007-01-12 23:31:14 · 22 answers · asked by abhinav 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i am online now, if anyone is willing to talk im me at abhnat@yahoo.com.
thax for all your answers guys.
i really appericate it. but i haven't decided yet. i am confused.
2007-01-12 23:50:28 · update #1
I can understand how duped you must be feeling!
But that is the way it is and you have to live with such things in life. I would suggest that take things easy and don't take it too hard. What she said may be true and may as well be untrue.
You never know. Sometimes people say just the opposite of what they feel, and this type of affair this is nor uncommon. I have seen this happening with many.
She gave a twist to the love story. All you have to do is just swallow it, thinking that she was not your cup of tea. You will have many more in your life. But be honest as far as you are concerned.
Tun nahi aur sahi
Sitaron se upar jahan aur bhi hain, ishque ke imtihan aur bhi hain
2007-01-12 23:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have sent you an invite to join me on msn I will chat to you if you want. If not, well I do think that this is one relationship you have to walk away from. It is a destructive relationship that will cause more pain to you. Trust has now gone, she said that she cant lie any more, but yet she has lied already. If she had any respect for you, she would not have done so.
Walk away with your head held high, knowing that you are capable of love and there will be someone out there, worthy of your love. I was always taught, you have to climb a lot of mountains before you find the valley.This means, you will go through hurt and pain, it will seem never ending but then you will find a valley, this being the love you so richly deserve, tranquil, beautiful, peaceful where you can then take rest in the arms of love
2007-01-13 05:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Abinav, i understand your position and feel sorry for you. But, don't worry. Time heals any pain. There is a saying " If you love something, set it free ; if it comes back, it is yours. If it doesn't, it never was." So, why do you want to worry over a girl who has lied to you and doesn't love you ? And there is no point in being friends with her. It will hurt you more. Just be frank to her that you can't be a friend of her anymore and maintain that position. Be patient, there comes a time in everybody's life that one meets with one's sweetheart. Wait and watch for that moment and i am sure that moment won't be too far. In the meantime , don't have any grudges because of this incident and keep a open -heart. Best of luck and God bless you.
2007-01-12 23:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by neeru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I would thank her for coming clean, and showing you her true colors. Chalk this one up as a growing pain and move on....you do not want someone who is not honest. Remember she wasn't just dishonest with you, there is another someone out there who has been lied to and cheated on as well. It's an old clichet " but time will heal." Take the lesson from this experience do not allow this girl/woman to enbitter you, but allow yourself to grow from the experience, however painful it is. Life will go on, love will find its way to you, you are worth more than what she has shown she has to offer you, a relationship full of deceit, and a "I want my cake and eat it too attitude", you don't want nor need that. Good Luck, all will be alright in the end. Just as hard it sounds be thankful for the life experience it will make you stronger, and remember this as well... You did not fall in love with her. You fell in love love with the illusion she presented before you, in other words you fell in love with the person you thought she was, the one she wanted you to think she was. Camelions can only change their color for so long, before they return to their natural color and habitat.
2007-01-12 23:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by fleaflopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That girls is either very stupid or very selfish. may be she actually thought that she could not hurt you by saying that she dint love you the very first time and said yes out of nervousness or may be she needed you for something and kept you happy till her work was over and is now ditching you. whatever the case may be, the best thing to do now is to tell this girl to forget everything and break friendship with her. there is no point in keeping friendship with either a stupid person or a very selfish person.
At first you might think that it is difficult for you to forget her and all that but just remember that there are many girls on earth and you definitely deserve some one better.
2007-01-12 23:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to stop all contact with her. Don't call her, don't go to the movies with her, don't hang out with her, and, first of all, don't be her friend. Because, you know it won't do. You can't be friends with someone who you're getting over, and have feelings for. You'll just end up being even more hurt and she'll think she can always do whatever she wants and that people will still love her.
2007-01-12 23:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH DEAR! Don't get offended look love can be one sided but belive me what we title as Love many times comes out as attraction !and if you want to find out wether it was attraction or love wait for 1 year(I know ity is too long but belive me it's worth it)
and if the feeling you had for her an year ago do you have it now??
and another way is put youyr hand on your hand on your heart and listen the beats carefully and do as it says because it speaks the words of goad>do tell me about your decission.
2007-01-12 23:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by sidharth_sani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry doesn't cut it here..she purposely lied to you and continued lieing to you. Her intentions were not good from the get go. Your best bet would be to let her go..I would not recommend staying friends with her as friendship requires honesty and respect..and she can provide neither for you. You can treat her decent when you see her.."hello" "whats up" or whatever..but avoid the friendship thing altogether..you deserve better friends than that. Move on and find your self a real nice girlfriend..good luck.
2007-01-12 23:41:11 · answer #8 · answered by kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sense for you. though that you're a guy and consider were given to take this on your stride regardless of if in trouble-free words to teach to her that you're a guy of integrity. in case you throw up a tantrum, commence begging and telling how a lot you're damage and so on., and so on. you'd be taking section in excellent into her fingers. females like her favor to be sure men down on their knees…don’t provide her that pride. in case you tell her you under no circumstances favor to be sure her back that too will be an admission of being damage and fulfill her advise streak.. fairly stay very calm as in case you're mostly on properly of problems with the problem. tell her in a calm yet agency voice that your love for her is for authentic and also you may stand in the back of it. assure her that being a gentleman you're not any further going to intervene which includes her existence and he or she could recognize that you will be there if she desires you. As you've faith that authentic love will win in the top.
2016-10-30 23:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by pour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has you wrapped aroudn her little finger, FORGET HER! She sounds like a munipulative (sorry spelling) girl, never trust anyone that lies to you, whatever she says, she could be lying once again, just don't trust her! Find a new non-lying girl, good luck and I hope I help!
2007-01-12 23:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋