what if the person u love says after a month that sorry she lied to you . shhe already had a bf. but she wants u as a friend, and she really like u as a friend. that what happened to me. i asked her like a million times if there was something. but she said no . and i really feel in love with her and now after a month she is like i am sorry i can't lie to u anymore..
she really hurted me ,
but she says she is really soory for lying to me and stuff.. what shall i do , friends.
i hope this never happens with anyone of you.
2007-01-12 23:30:31 · 8 answers · asked by abhinav 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As impossible as it may seem, I think you might just have to try to get over her. Maybe being friends with her would be too painful for you right now, but leave it open for the future. Unfortunately if she's not willing to leave her boyfriend, you can't force her to fall in love with you. Sorry that happened though. Good luck.
2007-01-12 23:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by doggiemom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really feel for you. Having said that you are a guy and you have to take this in your stride even if only to prove to her that you are a man of integrity. If you throw up a tantrum, start begging and telling how much you are hurt etc., etc. you will be playing right into her hands. Women like her like to see men down on their knees…don’t give her that satisfaction. If you tell her you never want to see her again that too will be an admission of being hurt and satisfy her mean streak.. Instead stay very calm as if you are fully in control of the situation. Tell her in a calm but firm voice that your love for her is for real and you are going to stand behind it. Assure her that being a gentleman you are not going to interfere with her life and she should know that you will be there if she needs you. As you believe that true love will win in the end.
2007-01-13 01:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 15:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well abhinav realise the fact that she was atleast honest enough to come n tell u the truth within a month. Just imagne ur plight if the same answer was given after u gettting seriously onto the verge of gettting married to her. Wud request u to please try to come out of it though it wont be easy for u coz ur's is a love thats true beyond expectation and please being frendz will not solve the concern . I mean being frendz wud hurt u even more coz ur question states that she already has a bf so stay away and lets see if she realises ur absence and gets back to u.
If u love someone let her go ..if she comes back she is ur's else she never was.
2007-01-15 12:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by sameer_billu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says she just wants to be just friends with you, tell yes we will be just friends. Because its no point in going after her if she has no intention of being with you. Maybe she really likes this other boy a lot. Don't go between their relationship and don't cause any problems in their relationship. You wouldn't want someone to come in between you and your girl friend, right? Be there as a close friend to her, if she has any problems in life she will confide in you. Look ahead in life. there are a lot more girls in the world.Its not the end of your life. Move on.
2007-01-15 01:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by click 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her there prove urself d best lover of that girl
create a condition when she seem u d best den any else
u understand what i say or not.
i advise u because i m also a girl and
nd i also overcome with that condition i mean someone like u
loves me and after a month i said goodbye to him.
and now oh kabhi mere way mein nain aya.
while he deeply love me and once oh mere liye apni jaan bhi dene ko ready tha
2007-01-13 01:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's really tough to be in love with someone who turns out to be a liar.......but u can't stop loving them all of a sudden........u know even tough she lied to u about her having an affair i really think her intentions are good........i'll tell u why......u must be a great guy who she really likes as a friend but when she discovered that u r in love with her she did not want to hurt u by telling u that she was in love with someone else plus ur friendship seems to be too precious for her to losse it.........we all know that the worst thing in a relatiuonship is to fall in love with someone and not have it returned.........so many times we too lie in our friend circle just to avoid hurting the person in front.........so if u really think she is a bad person i will say no.....she just likes u too much as a friend and did not want to loose u........so be friends with her.......and also look out for someone else for urself......i know it is really easy to say this but the deal is that by being just friends with her it will be easier for u to move on.........it will be more difficult to forget her if u guys break up even as friends.......enter into a healthy relationship with her....and see maybe u will discover that u 2 just like her as a friend..........all the best
2007-01-14 15:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is indeed very difficult..in my opinion u should put an end between you two..i dont think that u should be her friend cz it would only cause pain to you..forget her and find a new girlfriend,maybe this would take u months but u have to do it...
2007-01-13 00:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by so..80's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋