Ok I have asked what could happen but now it has. My roommates girlfriend broke up with her (btw this is a lesbian relationship, at least my roomie is bi) then called back 30 mins later to come back together. I didn't find this out until my roomie and I had a fight over dishes if you can believe that and it came out. What exactly happened was after our fight we were being civil and she asked me (since she works there and gets a discount) if she wanted to go to Panera Bread, her treat. Me being me I didn't question free food and I agreed. On our way there she told me of the breakup and I had an intense feeling of surprise and fear even though I had expected this for months due to what I have heard about lesbian relationships and the signs they exhibited. What I am scared about is that she may be using me as a fallback plan in case she eventually dumps (or vice versa) her girlfriend. I feel trouble is all over this and I'm wondering if it comes down to it, how do I let her down gently?
2007-01-12 23:28:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I guess I should have put in "How do I let her down gently" as my title.
2007-01-12 23:29:28 · update #1
Well I told her about someone else that I was interested in and thats when she asked if I wanted to eat out.
2007-01-12 23:36:24 · update #2
Please read my question throughly, some of you aren't answering my intended question.
2007-01-13 08:54:27 · update #3
She may not even want you that way. She may just need a friend! But, if she does hit on you, well you just have to tell her that you like her as a person and all, but you are in no way attracted to her sexually.
2007-01-13 03:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by titchandco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and use "friend" a lot when you're talking to her. Plutonic words. With any luck, it won't come to having to turn her down.
If you do, tell her the truth. It's too soon after the other relatonship has ended to go into a new one. also, you'd rather not risk loosing a room mate if it goes **** up and end up with no-where to live.
2007-01-13 07:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by erynnsilver 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't turn this into a big issue
if u have to, just tell her u r not interested in having a relationship with her and i bet she's understand
good luck
2007-01-13 08:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Charlyssie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say you have met somebody and that you are sorry.
or you could just use that strange excuse that women use Ohh sorry have to wash my hair, catch u later OK?
2007-01-13 07:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Shelty K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not to get laid
2007-01-13 15:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋