...when out of work, short on money, long on bills, poor health, family problems or any other reason to worry....
2007-01-12 23:17:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
yes........
Water baby, can you expand on the concept of "postitive comebacks" ? Or does someone else know what she means exactly?
2007-01-12 23:46:47 · update #1
it's tough but think of this:
if you worry about something and it happens, worrying didn't help. and if it doesn't happen, you worried for nothing.
2007-01-12 23:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by delujuis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try this. Remember that your problems are small compared to someone down the road because there is always someone in worse shape than you, so be thankful that your problems aren't what the next persons problems are. My mother used to tell us that growing up and that thought always kept us going through the tough times and there were plenty of those with one parent and 7 kids
2007-01-13 07:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by SunnyDay 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Been there many times myself. Then, I found out something. I was "training" my brain to think this way..every time something bad happened. (The brain "auto-programs" itself to what we use most often.)
Throw in some 'positive comebacks", when bad things happen. Your brain will start picking up on it, and this will become part of the program. ( Bad things will start not looking quite so bad.) You formed a new habit.
2007-01-13 07:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by dearreal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one but you can't worry about things you cannot change but you can try to find a job, try to seek help from the state, i am not sure what your health is or that of your familys but you could try to get medicade or something, worrying causes stress and stress leads to heart related problems so you should try not to worry.
2007-01-13 07:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just think positive my frend . becoz after every black night there is a warm morning so think all the problems that u have doesn't exist but also always think and do correct things n take decisions thinking about everybody.
2007-01-13 07:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I figure if I can't fix it, I might as well not worry about it since worrying is a waste of energy. Explore all options.
2007-01-13 07:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by ANSWER MY QUESTION!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk, run, any physical exertion. No panacea but its a start.
2007-01-13 07:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by puritanzouave 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lots of booze and drugs
2007-01-13 07:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by Rolando Mactavish VI 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lots of sex....LOTS of sex....Do you need some help with that?
2007-01-13 07:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by Loren H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
derail it
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come gaming with us and leave that crap behind.
2007-01-13 07:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋