he said he loves her my bestfriend asked my other best friend out and said he loves her i am heart broken i feel like someone just ripped it out it's horrible
can i die of a broken heart?
2007-01-12 23:13:49 · 21 answers · asked by taytaymm28 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If it's literally, yes.
However, when it comes to broken heart because of love, the answer is no. It can make you stressful, that's true. But just go on with life! Get the spirit!
2007-01-12 23:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by Shaka Mahottama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In most cases people just feel like crap for a little while. Sometimes you can get a cold or the flu easier because your body is broken down from the stress of it all.
But I do believe a broken heart can be serious. For me it is serious anyway. It has been 13 years since my ex broke up with me. I was pregnant and had a hard struggle on my own all these years without him. It was easier when I was in my twenties and had more energy. I tried to do too many things...raise a child on my own, finish university with honors, get a good job. It makes it easy not to think about things when you keep really busy.
But here I am after 13 years and its 3am and I am sitting here on the computer because I just had a little cry and can't sleep.
I feel my broken heart has affected my health deeply. The pain and stress of it all these years has in my opinion affected my auto-immune system. I have hypo-thyroidism, ulcers, and something called menieres diease. Read anything about those things and the cause of it is usually STRESS STRESS STRESS.
Hopefully you will be like most and bounce back in a bit.
I pray to god every night to make my broken heart go away. I have held on to the saying, time heals all wounds. I ASK WHEN WILL THIS BE FOR ME!!!!
And you know I am a happy productive girl. I dont have depression problems. I am just stuck like a broken record on my loss. I hope I don't die of a broken heart.
2007-01-14 03:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by Esperenza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,it isnt worth it.No man or should i say "boy" is worth your life.I felt the exact same way,and i let myself go so long.I didnt want to go on and i wanted out.However,i had some friends luckily who helped me through it.If it wasnt for them i probably wouldnt be around now.At the time,i couldnt see anything but my pain,not even that it would get better.Believe me,over time it does get better.It wont completely go away,but it gets better.As time goes on,you will begin to realise and maybe even move on.Dont rush yourself to do so though,it will only end up hurting not only you but the other person.Three things that helped me:
1.Friends,they were there for me when no one else in the world was.Even tho some of your friends like him,i am sure you have others.They will stick by you if they are real friends.
2.Talking about it.Talking to someone about what i was feeling was a relief.As i wasnt keeping it inside.You keep it in it will only bother you more.
3.Grieving.Allow yourself to grieve,and dont rush yourself to heal.Allow yourself to cry,and to mourn it.It isnt something you get over with the snap of a finger.It takes times,and you have to give it time.
Good luck sweetie,and have a good day.If you need to talk,you can email me.It is hard now,but i promise you it gets better.
2007-01-13 10:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably can't. However, I've heard of really old people who lose their spouse of many years die soon after and they refer to this as dying from a broken heart. Everyone gets their heart broken especially during teenage years, so you will be okay. Every day it gets a little easier.
2007-01-13 08:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible... I know a mother who had her child die in iraq and within half an hour of hearing the news she died. Although it hurts, it is very unlikely that you will die of a broken heart. Just try not to think about it and move on with your life.
2007-01-13 09:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by sunkissedlove<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you can, but not like this!
Do not let any GUY let you feel like this! I know through experience that this hurts like hell, but i am living proof that you get over it!! Just think of it that this is the best thing that has happened to you, you now have the chance to start fresh, i think dying of a broken heart tends to happen to people that have spent thier entire lives loving someone and then they are suddenly taken from them, i think that is you sole mate! And if that person is taken from you, you give up! But that tends to be older people who feel they have nothing left to live for, you im guessing re young, so please move on and dont let it get you down!
2007-01-13 07:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by TP 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wish you could, but if that were true I would have died when my 15 1/2 month old daughter was in the ICU near death because her babysitter shook her. I needed a damd machine to tell me if she was still alive of not. It got so bad that I prayed that GOD take her in HIS arms. Her brain had swollen nearly to the point of death. That is heart break. I pray you never have to go through true heart break like that. Once you have, anything else is irrelivant.
2007-01-13 07:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by daddyspanksalot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't die of a broken heart.
2007-01-13 09:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by robedzombiesoul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you can't die...just remember that he's an idiot and you probably deserve a guy better than him. The guy that loves you is still out there waiting for you...and it's definitely not the guy who just broke your heart.
2007-01-13 11:53:52 · answer #9 · answered by Qu'est ce que tu penses? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have had a fair share of heartbreaks myself, but don't let a guy tare you down. And don't get jealous of your best friend, because it will cause a three-way catastrophe. Teen guys in love are unpredictable. Their are many more guys in this world, so go find yuor Prince Charming!
2007-01-13 09:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by lolosaur 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋