2007-01-12 22:26:44 · 11 answers · asked by bigbreastedbitch1979 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Heaps.
2007-01-16 18:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person may be faithful in a marriage for years (as I was 17 years) but if the other spouse is unfaithful and divorces them, it is not fair for the person to continue to remain celebate forever..had the partner also been faithful, they might have done that but with the multitudes having premarital sex and rampant divorces, what you said is only possible if the person resolves to remain a virgin till marriage and they and their partner both remain faithful (unless the one who was cheated on remains celebate for the remainder of their live even if divorced. Most people will not do this so it is a matter, essentially of both values and luck. This scenario was much more common in the generation that fought in WWII than now and this is also society's fault not only the participants for not encouraging this, laughing at it, media showing casual sex on first date almost every movie, and ease of divorce among other factors.
Also with the event of talk lines and the internet..it is much easier to find someone to cheat with and men lie to women about marital status too..with the event of the chat lines even having categories like looking for discreet relationship or sexual encounter, with the ease of hiding real phone numbers with cell phones and one's identity..one is not at the risk of getting caught they once were..so society is also to blame for this.
2007-01-12 22:35:44 · answer #2 · answered by mindy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know 3 people who have only ever slept with one person in their life. They have been in relationships w/ their partners for 8, 10 & 28 years.........However I will point out that of those 3 people i know off, all of their siginificant others HAVE slept with someone prior to the start of their relationship.
So I guess the harder question would be.. is there a COUPLE out there that have only slept with each other and no one else? I'd be interested to know that!
2007-01-13 03:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by CEP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The latest data says that 95% of Americans have premarital sex.
Very sad and it leads to another statistic...
1 in 4 high school seniors will graduate with an STD.
I am married, first and only husband, for 8 years. I hope to go 80 more!!
2007-01-12 22:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not enough sadly, or there would be alot less sexualy transmitted desiese around and un wanted pregnancys!
2007-01-12 22:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by TP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is the correct and noble way of living
2007-01-12 22:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sleep with one women..the one to me that matters...all the others are told to leave before I go to sleep!
2007-01-12 22:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
a few ones l am sure.....l was just cheated so,l dont believe in loyalty anymore,l might start doing the same ....being loyal doesnt mean anything,l was and l ended up being cheated.
2007-01-12 22:41:16 · answer #8 · answered by ann 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a nice idea, more like a fairy tale.
2007-01-13 00:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very difficult to answer this question.
2007-01-12 22:33:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋