i have you ever cheated on partner and regretted it ,if you have did you come clean about?

Question

but surly if you loved them and you were sorry you would confess all to them

i have nevered cheated on my partner but he cheated on me twice and confessed

Answer 1

I think we all do things we regret. But no I would not come clean about it. Sometimes things are better off left unsaid.

Answer 2

It never happen to me one way or the other.
But I've heard people talking about their experience.
Some did come clean and were forgiven, although the trust had gone, and something had gone from the relationship.
Some never did, although the partner did suspect it, but that partner was strong enough to know that she had to do her best to bring her man back to her, and succeeded brillantly.
Other live in the dread that they might be discovered.
Personnally, until it happens, I wouldn't know.
I mean some relationship are worth saving, depending on what is at stake, and if the love is truly there; Because after all, people do make mistake, who hasn't ?!
On the other hand, the pain might be such that it just outshines everything else, and the sensible thing to do is to break up.
So, If you think that the guilt will kill you, then maybe confess, sooner rather than later.
Also you'd know your man, do you think he would want you to tell him or not?
Would it be better to severe all ties with the person you cheated with,and that would be the end of the matter?
I think that knowing your man, and what you want, will give you a clue as how to deal with that best.
Good luck.

Answer 3

Cheating on a partner is the worst thing any one could ever do, the trust goes and takes a hell of a long time to be regained, as for conffessing it always comes out in the end believe me i have been there on more than one occasion

Answer 4

Don't regret it. Enjoy the experience and revel in the fact that you were smart enough to get away with it.

Why on earth would you want to come clean about something like that?! It does far more harm than good - unless you honestly (and selfishly) just want to make your conscience feel better.

Humans - by nature - are not monogomous! So , as long as you play safe, go for it and forget the social taboos.

Answer 5

I guess it is better not to cheat. Anyway if you have already made this, make a confession to your priest (no way to your partner) if you want to keep the relation. Or kiss and say good bye.

Answer 6

There is no point at all 4 cheating..
If you feel you have to cheat with you're partner jus leave them becoz you obviously aint meant to be 2gever.
I have known people to cheat on my mates or my mates to cheat on people and it just breaks hearts..
it isnt right.

Answer 7

Yes i have cheated once, i must say you have no idea how horrible it is now coz my girlfriend who i love dearly now for 10 mounths hated me only for awile tho we are no back in a happy relationship. i had to tell her coz what idf i did not and some one else did that would of been worse

Answer 8

Yes l have cheated on my Girlfriend, and never told her about it . l meet this hot women that works with me, l may cheat again so what nothing wrong with cheating somethings.

Answer 9

Honesty is always the best policy.

If you felt the urge to cheat then obviously you aren't right for each other and are just with each other for convenience or it has become a habit.

Answer 10

both of my last 2 ex's have cheated on my. the first time it happened i left my ex as the trust had gone. then wen my last ex did it he said she was just a friend and that went on for 6 months. if you love someone why cheat?