I have had a friend tell me I'm nuts, but who is being harmed here? She is just unable to conceive of enjoying such a thing. No pictures or video are being shared. It's just nice stimulating chat. I also share music and images i find on the internet, but nothing personal. While my friend may be too repressed to enjoy such a thing, why should she give me such a hard time?
2007-01-12 21:28:45 · 17 answers · asked by Lil Greek Girl 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I do not believe anything consensual between consenting adults is a sin.
2007-01-12 21:35:26 · update #1
By the way, I'm 28 and I only chat with adults
2007-01-12 21:37:48 · update #2
Just bear in mind that on the grand scale of things you might be committing a certain kind of sin with someone/people you don't even really know. Do you want that for your soul?
2007-01-12 21:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by ♥zene purrs♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the one hand, it's probably harmless. On the other hand, it's like having imaginery friends from childhood. You're not really relating to real people. You can't believe a word these people say about themselves, because people lie online. It's harmless fantasy, but it does keep you from the real world. You don't get much exercise, you don't have a real relationship, and it takes up your time to so you don't go out and develop real relationships. Also, the more time you spend in front of a computer, the more likely you are to develop depression. So, overall, it's harmless, but it can be addictive, and there are better things to do with your life.
2007-01-12 21:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, you are not nuts. At least the fact that you enjoy sex the way you explained it does not make you nuts. I think experimenting with sexuality without harming anybody is a very healthy thing to do and possible future lovers might appreciate your openness.
2007-01-12 21:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by mr. corkscrew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are more or less inhibited than others it usually depends on their upbringing and cultural environment.
We seem to think going to war is O.K but sharing intimacy is immoral. Boy do we need to take a good look at our values.
Enjoy, i wish there were more people like you and less of the opposite.
2007-01-12 21:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by turniton5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I do not think this is wrong . .... I am a woman and would prefer cybersex with another woman.Pretty hard to find . Who's to say you are wrong ? Unless you are breaking a law some where.
2007-01-12 22:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by RayvenShayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not underaged or married (and if the other people aren't), I don't think it's wrong. Chances are your friend has never done this before to find out what could be wrong with it. If that's the case then don't listen to her.
2007-01-12 21:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, it's not wrong.
it can only be harmful if you do it to the point where it affects your platonic relationships and work life. as for the romantic relationships, it might be better to be upfront and honest about it with your significant other. good luck.
2007-01-16 14:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people enjoy cybersex. There's nothing wrong with that. I don't do it myself, as I find that it's not for me, but if you enjoy it...go for it!
2007-01-13 03:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by titchandco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's REALLY not my thing, personally, but there's nothing "wrong" about it, especially if you're not currently with anyone else. There might be if you were, and he or she didn't know, but...whatever.
2007-01-13 02:26:19 · answer #9 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it doesn't have any interest at all to me cyber sex couldn't possibly be harmful. Enjoy
2007-01-13 02:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋