Found out the man I've been married to for six years . was only looking for a 'housekeeper'! Wasn't get enough sex so went elsewhere and got sprung!
Told him to go...he went...I'm alone...don't mind that but .... time to find a new direction...don't mention men!
2007-01-12 21:04:50 · 9 answers · asked by Jan Frost 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks Bree... I'm 59 - 52 when we met/married. He's 57 and everyone's mate.
I (was a) handbag to him.
2007-01-12 22:08:29 · update #1
we can't hold it against every man we meet because of what the last one did to us. we leave the past behind us, and look for someone else who will love us, u just got the wrong one, as many of us do. don't fear new relationships, because if u do, than u will never find what u want. just be more selective next time, get to know him better, don't be in a hurry. acknowledge it is over with him, and he did u are hurt u did not deserve, and that's the end of it, but don't hold all men accountable for what this one man did. reinvent yourself, get a new hairdo, new clothes, go out more, meet new friends. seek a self help therapy group, as there are definitely some issues we all need to work through when we are hurt. but don't play the role of the victim, see yourself as a self confident woman. and when u even think u see a looser run fast away from him. there will be signs, u will be able to tell. good luck
2007-01-13 02:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through he__ for years after my divorce. Thirteen years after, I finally began daily Bible readings and prayers. Seventeen years later, I am free. I moved away from the town we lived in, far enough away that he couldn't visit. The only communication, which was once a year if my children were lucky, we had was at Christmas. I just got involved with support groups and went back to school. Do fun things that you couldn't do when you were married.
2007-01-12 21:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jan don't know how old you are but, when you find a man who is 60 and over, they usually look for a nurse or your purse. In your case he only wanted a nurse. Be very careful, you gotta be lucky to find a decent man these days. I feel for you and if you need to air out ,( I experienced a problem with my ex to) feel free to IM me.
you need to talk to as many people as you can and forget the rat.
2007-01-12 21:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by BFCP 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try new things. New activities that you've always wanted to do but couldn't because of the restraints of marriage. New activities will help you meet new people and inject life back into YOUR life.
Just have fun.
2007-01-12 21:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by galaxygirl_00_uk 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go for it new directions in every way - bite the bullet - do courses - make the most of singledom and the freedom you have - you dont have to check in with anyone now. you are free
2007-01-12 21:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by boo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is always better to find someone who really loves / likes you than marrying someone whom u like.
the partner must accept you after he knows all your + and - points. u must also know his + and - aspects.
all the best for a very happy life ahead.
gouthaman.
2007-01-12 21:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by gopala g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gather you don't need that PI now, bingo, pokies, go on a trip.
2007-01-12 22:47:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
come over & you could make me a lovely breakfast.
2007-01-12 21:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
find another person..
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2007-01-12 21:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋