It has been nearly 2 years since I lost her. I have tried to talk to her but she won't answer. Every month I send an e-mail. Untill 2 months ago there was no problem but her new bf has finally said something. He made her block me from sending her anything. She truly has my heart but she lives 5 states away. I can't possibly explain the pain I feel inside. I miss her terribly but she only says that I moved away and left her... and that she will never forgive me. I don't understand! She knows that I left to finish school and care for my neice and nephew whos father is dying from doing to much cocaine. She has not seen me since we split. In fact she has told me she still loves me... but that was a year ago.. the last time she contacted me. I admit that losing her made me temperarily lose it... I acted like a real dush. But it was my love for her that crushed me so... I just want her back. 2 years and counting. What should I do?? Moving on just won't work... she is the one!
2007-01-12 20:42:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we were engaged by the way
2007-01-12 21:00:28 · update #1
if I have to let her go... I honestly just might never move on... are they looking for priests... cause this sux
2007-01-12 21:01:43 · update #2
well, why didn't she move with you when you had to move? Maybe she doesn't love you as much as you love her?
If you email her and she emails you back then there may be something still there. But now she is ignoring you. What can you do?
If you really want, you can really risk yourself and try to go to her and talk to her in person, but it's really risky. 1st of all, going through all that trouble and failing will only add a lot to your emotional pain. 2nd, if she's in a relationship AND she's telling you not to talk to her, EVEN IF it's only because her current boyfriend is telling her to, then if you start bothering you, he has every right to kick the $hit out of you. I mean, it's dangerous stuff to mess around with another man's woman if she doesn't want you to.
So you would be risking a lot. You could end up with her telling you to screw off and her boyfriend kicking your butt (or, if you're lucky, you're bigger than him. But I have a feeling that if you kick his butt you will feel just as bad because she will hate you).
She knows how to find you. She knows your email, she knows your phone# (maybe?). She isn't contacting you. Maybe she doesn't want you anymore?
You don't need to move on, either. Just live with your pain and be strong. Don't call her, don't contact her. Eventually you will come out of your shell like a butterfly emerging from its cocoon.
2007-01-12 21:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by Montel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is the one go to her & tell her.What can it hurt? Something good could come out of it like a lifetime of love!!! You may also get rejection but if shes the one you must have shared something earth shaking. Have hope ,she felt it too. Bonds like that just don't go away. Maybe u 2 could come to a agreement on your issues. Have faith: she'll understand if she loves you..when two people really want to b together they will b eventually.Maybe she never knew how you really felt:tell her...........
2007-01-12 21:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how your feel and your heart is broken but i can only say one thing and believe me i do not mean this in a derogative way but you have to get a life and move on. It's been 2 years, please for your own sake and sanity move on. The feelings are no longer reciprocated so she doesn't think you are a one let alone the one.
2007-01-12 21:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by AussiePete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep at it bro. thats the spirit. i'm sure by the time the world cup kicks off in South Africa in 2010, she will probably come round to forgive you. but honestly, was the sex that good? cos it seems the small head is doing the talking for the bigger one now. get real men. the girl don't want you no more. capisce?
2007-01-12 20:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by babsacas 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its time to let her go as sad as it may make you feel. She isn't the one if she is with someone else. I also thought "he was the one" but when he chose someone else then I knew he wasn't the one anymore. Its sad and scary and heartbreaking but its time to let go.
2007-01-12 20:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is the one she should be understanding your situation, and your feelings.You have responsibilities,which you cannot leave. if she has not seen you since you split,then try to move on.
2007-01-12 20:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be brave..there are a lot of girls.everybody must move on sometimes
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2007-01-12 20:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not the one..... you just don't realize it yet.
2007-01-12 20:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP SENDING ME STUPID ANSWERS YOU SAD LITTLE P*R*I*C*K GET YOUR SELF A LIFE AND A BRAIN!!!!!!!!
2007-01-13 09:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋