Is life before marriage and after marriage two entirely unconnected or different stories in every case? Does marriage change our life so much as though we were to have begun an entirely new life altogether?
The more important part of the question is as to which part of our life is more important.... the part that brought a male and female together to tie the knott or the rest of it thereafter.
2007-01-12 20:40:20 · 13 answers · asked by small 7 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
ya it is. i will never get married. it is fake, tottaly fake, bureaucratic thing..//
2007-01-12 21:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by phoenix! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's say it's the start of a new chapter of a book, the one that has for title "sacrifice and communication". Life after marriage changes a lot... the key for happiness is to find common areas of agreement and Independence. Indulge in some alone time, and hobbies.
The drastic change is when babies come along.... that's a new book not a chapter... Some find a meaning for their lives when they conceive and some dilute themselves completely in the new born, and their life as a couple becomes a nightmare...
2007-01-13 05:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Nadinette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End of first romantic stage. Beginning of a multitask "God give me more patience stage" hehehhe :-) But i think both stages are important. But the rest of it after tying the knott is like WORK which we have to nourish, exert effort, perform our duty and responsibility in order for it to succeed.
I dont know, i am not yet married, but im in a relationship right now and at this stage of our affair we are still working on it coz sometimes it is calm and steady and sometimes it is unpredictable and complex.... huuuh :-) Did somebody says that life is not all bed of roses :-)
2007-01-12 21:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only the beginning. I don't like Hollywood movies that treat courtship like the beginning and marriage as the end - because life just gets more interesting after marriage.
2007-01-12 20:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by diegomcnamara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am for me it’s the beginning of their journey
And its not how many years the been together
The important is how much they love each other
And they are welling to listen with each other
That’s a perfect relation I guess
And always keep on touch with God
2007-01-12 20:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by spike_mae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id like to think anytime a dramatic step is taken in life its the beginning of new chapter, but the entirety of a persons life is the story. Sometimes you just find good clips.
2007-01-12 20:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by geystin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a continuation of the same story..... from the beginning to the end. LIfe changing? Can be, not always. I think it depends on the circumstances.
2007-01-12 20:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is end of love story & beginning of marriage life with love & sex.
2007-01-12 20:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by vm_h2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the begining of an end.
2007-01-12 20:48:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
somewhere in the middle.
it may be the beginning, if they will be together till the end of their lives.
on the opposite, it would be an ending, if they would get divorced.
depends of the two ones.
2007-01-12 21:00:37 · answer #10 · answered by ilovephotographyandmusic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,thats the begining of the nightmare.everything will change and she'll start to piss you off for meanless reasons and you'll finish with that inocent dream... Good luck
2007-01-12 20:52:45 · answer #11 · answered by krash_lord 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋