and he laughs with everyone like it was a simple joke but i know he hates it i can tell should i tell my other friends to quit it
2007-01-12 20:34:00 · 12 answers · asked by that wheelchair guy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
is in a wheelchair
2007-01-12 20:37:13 · update #1
Yes- they are not good friends. This is something he cannot control and their Mommies did not teach them right. Pull them aside and tell them that you know he laughs, but it bugs him when they do it and you think they should stop. If they don't- you should ditch them and hang with him. They don't sound like people you could lean on in a pinch. Thanks for being cool to him, everyone should have a friend like you.
2007-01-12 20:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL I think you meant your friend is in a wheelchair...anyways i myself am in a chair and have been all my life and i reckon laughing it off is probably his way of dealing with the teasing and really if they were "true" friends they wouldn't do it to your friend anyway so I think you either talk to him and your other friends or find some new friends.
2007-01-12 21:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by wilo_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are friends with "a wheelchair", you should be the one people pick on. What do you do for fun with this wheelchair? Is it an outgoing wheelchair? Does it like going for a few drinks?
2007-01-12 20:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by Shaun 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you need to know the difference between friends and aqauintances
an aqauintance you shut up and take what they hand out because you want to be their friend -
a true friend you stick up for - and put in their place if they are wrong
its too easy to make fun of somebody else - but really takes character to have a friend to go to bat for - is the person in the wheelie your friend or aqaintance?
stay strong - go get em!
2007-01-12 20:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by tom4bucs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend if the comments and jokes etc hurt him. At least you are acknowledging that to him. If he states he is ok with it let it be. If not then you be the ambassador and get them to change their ways, they might not realize they are being hurtful seeing he joins in with the jibes as well
2007-01-12 20:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya but somes of the jokes can be very painfull.
2007-01-12 23:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jo-Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being such a buzz kill. Let the guys have laughs, you wouldn't understand how the male mind works.
2007-01-12 20:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you need to word youre questiions better
2007-01-14 16:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by filmman316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your sure he "hates it" it is you duty to stop them.
2007-01-12 21:06:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is cruel what they are doing.
2007-01-12 20:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋