im soon moving on to the second semester or my school year, and i just started to like this girl, ive been telling my friends bout it, they keep pressuring me to ask her out.
the thing is that shes only in grade 10 (im grade 12) and im graduating soon. Lets say she accepted me being her bf, we go out a few times, and lets say its the end of the year and im leaving, shes goin to think im using her just to have a gf.
my question is "should i just wait till im older to ask girls out, or just go for it"?
2007-01-12 20:05:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dude... if you're asking me a question like that then my theory is that you don't truly like her. Maybe you should try waiting until you meet a girl you really like without questioning yourself whether it is right or not. And don't worry. age does not matter. besides, it's only 2 years apart. Most people, when they get married, they're sometimes 10 years apart. There is nothing wrong with that. I mean.. what can you do? If you like them, then you like them. =0) And I don't think she would think that you were using her unless after you graduate, you tell her "let's break up." Instead, if you really like her, ask her what it is that she wants. Whether she wants to break up and be close friends since long distance relationship is hard, or if she would rather stick with the long distance relationship.
2007-01-12 20:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bad thing. Don't do it. If you are going to go out with someone at least make sure that she is your age or older and has the same goals as you. I have known young girls to get pregnant on purpose to keep thier boyfriends from going away to college etc. I am a grown woman. I have seen this happen, it's not that unusual. Soon you will be a man and she will be jailbait.
2007-01-13 04:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You coudl go for it. But I will tell you now that the majority of relationships started in high school wont continue in college. I dont know why but everyone I have known has broken up once they reach college. There is no time and you have so many options and you just grow. Yo ucould ask her out and just have fun, movies, dinner stuff like that. Maybe you would get lucky and you guys would stay together. I say go for it.
2007-01-13 04:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by Brutally Honest 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My answer is that you are looking too far into the future with this one. Don't worry about what COULD be, go for it and see what happens. You have the right attitude asking about your age! You can always just be friends with the girl and then follow your heart. You seem like a wise young man.
2007-01-13 04:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out by all means and let time take its course. If it is a one year thing, so be it....make the best of that year. Don't drown yourself in "what ifs." You will never get anywhere in life if you are afraid to live it.
2007-01-13 04:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by Cat Woman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, you're too young for that so here's what i suggest you to do...tell that girl that you like her and let her know that you're willing to wait for her..right now, just focus on your studies so that in the future you can have a better life.
Godbless you sweetie..
2007-01-13 04:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by alram_grl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋