Almost every man I see seems to trigger the memories. I know that not all men are bad, but how can you tell which ones are going to hurt you and which ones aren't?
2007-01-12 19:24:29 · 13 answers · asked by teetalla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't.
Time will help, but what you do is get busy with life.
Only good thoughts can erase bad memories.
Good thoughts leads to good actions which leads to good habits which leads to good circumstances which changes your life in the direction you want it.
2007-01-12 19:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Hansinchina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a long time to get over physical pain,and to be able/willing to try to trust someone again.Take your time,be careful,and maybe talk to someone that has been through the bad,and was able to find good!The triggers=listen to them-somewhat.They will help keep you safe.But if you listen too close,it will also keep you from trying to find someone special any more.Good Luck.
2007-01-13 03:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by stressed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time in group, U wl learn more about person u r interested in.
If U fell once ur parents did allow you to try walk again. Improvement is the trait for Human only.
2007-01-13 03:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant u have t take ur chances n when u do thats when u can find out but if u keep lookin at the same type of guy just guess what is goin to happend THE SAME THING OVER N OVER N OVER so try something ne even if it means a total nerd
2007-01-13 03:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by The Boss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sing
2007-01-13 03:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a rough one. I was in therapy for over a year after I finally left my husband who beat me & threatened to kill me & everyone I knew. I am with a gentle giant now (6' 8") & so gentle that he's afraid he's hurting me each time he touches me. I brought him to one of my last sessions & my therapist asked how I felt with him touching me (hugging, arm around me, etc) & I felt protected. She said that it was unusual for someone to trust a man after being hurt. Seek some counseling or a group. If you want to talk to me, e-mail me.
2007-01-13 03:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself into counseling.
You deserve to feel better.
Hopefully you will feel brave enough to face your fears and confront them so you will not have to hurt and wonder for the rest of your life who and when you will hurt again.
2007-01-13 07:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by laura g 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many apples on the tree, not all of them will taste the same, some will fall to quickly, while other will stay on too long and spoil. You get the picture.
2007-01-13 03:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by bliden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,
Even though you had troublesome relationship/s, it doesnt mean that your future relationships will turn out like that. You need to understand this to fully move on. Just try to be with someone who compatible and un-complicating.
2007-01-13 03:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by Kk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard. You just have to try to think of good memories when this occur. n
2007-01-13 03:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋