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personally im sick of being judged, i try my hardest not to judge other people..and i listen to what they have to say but when they attack me i cant take it anymore...

what do you think people judge you for? and who do you think judges you the most?

me personally i believe people judge me because i consider every possible answer and i ask alot of questions for people to prove themselves to me or their idea to me, and the people that judge the most are probably the people i sit beside every sunday...what a lovely way to spend the day!
thanks for your input

2007-01-12 19:03:57 · 10 answers · asked by heather feather 3 in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

note: i know im being judgemental and im asking you to be through this question so please forgive me!

2007-01-12 21:19:44 · update #1

10 answers

Judgment usually comes from roots of bitterness in the heart which causes a critical spirit and religion (mans standards and rules imposed on others because that is way man thinks God wants us to act). These things come from wounded and hurting people. I am sorry that the people at your church treat you that way. Ask the Lord to show you their hearts and to heal them of their bitterness, pride and arrogance. Ask the Lord to guard your heart so you won't end up in the same boat (and the people that judge the most are probably the people I sit beside every Sunday...what a lovely way to spend the day! - a little bitterness starting?). Maybe the Lord has given you the gift of discernment so you can pray for these people. Maybe He made you just right for the job!!!

2007-01-12 19:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by s_k_wilson1990 3 · 1 0

Sorry to tell you but to try to place the blame on a certain group of people who judge the most is in itself judgement. Don't try to find the person who judges the most for it will tempt you to judge them for everything they do. It all depends on the individual.

I too feel victim to the mass judgement I acquire from all of my friends (they are all Christians) for thinking freely and seeking the truth rather than security and it SUCKS! I know it's hard to remain optimistic but... haha I guess that's not what we are about and neither are we pessimistic- we are just trying to find the truth and explore all the possibilities.

2007-01-12 20:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by Robert 3 · 1 0

People judge and question because they don't understand. But they want to. People judge me for the questions I ask and my level of tolerance for people in general. My mother judges me the most...LOL And I know how you feel, I'd tell you why but I don't want to have my answer deleted.

2007-01-12 19:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by MotherMayI? 4 · 0 0

The most judgemental are the ones that are narcississtic or judged alot themselves. Insecure people also judge to make themselves feel better about their inferiority complex.

2007-01-12 19:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

People judge me because I tend to act differently than most people. Sometimes I feel that my friends are more judging of me than strangers because they know a lot more about me than most other people.

2007-01-12 19:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by bunny 1 · 0 0

Everybody judges so don't take it personally .
Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former.
Albert Einstein
humor me peace out and good luck

2007-01-12 19:11:36 · answer #6 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 0 0

i ought to wish to decline, yet from previous journey, I knew that I did decide human beings earlier i recognize them, at times. that is in simple terms that I save my judgements to myself first, each and anytime possible, get to carry close the guy, and after a at the same time as, see even if my first judgement is genuine or not. at times that is genuine, at times not. i guess that is common to do the kind of aspect. that is in simple terms the way we manage it, and how we behave in direction of the individuals we've pre-judged.

2016-11-23 15:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Hypocrites

2007-01-12 19:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by GUESS GIRL 3 · 0 0

Ones that live in glass houses.

2007-01-13 07:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by Countess 5 · 0 0

Radicals of any religion.

2007-01-12 19:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0 0

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