what do i do? she denies that hes a jerk, but she doesnt know what he really does behind her back, he flirts, and he hurts us. hes rude, and every time we tell her, she says "oh yeah whatever i really like him so back off." what should i do???
2007-01-12 19:01:31 · 8 answers · asked by love_bananas_i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Back off and let her find out for herself. You cant tell someone something they dont want to hear. Sooner or later she will see his true colors. He can only hide them from her for so long. Soon she will be saying the same thing you are. And when she does try not to say I told you so.
2007-01-12 19:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but she sounds like a ***** who puts him before you. You probably should tell her if he is doing inappropriate things behind her back because that is what a best friend does, looks out for her girls. You probably need to have a serious talk with your bff to see what her deal is, maybe not talk about her boyfriend being a jerk, just about how she is mean to you and her girlfriends.
2007-01-12 19:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tape record the jerk, or even better get a hidden camara so when he acts like that you can show your girl friend and she'll know the real truth then,won't she?:) GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-12 19:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Tanya*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 15:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um........i have had the same problem before and the best thing u can do is talk to her about it at leats one more time and if she doesnt beleive you and chooses a guy over u then i would stop being friends with her......but only u can decide that.....all i have to say is good luck.
2007-01-12 19:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by that one girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is blind you tride to tell her now she has to see for herself and try to ovoid the jerk it might take a while but it will work out in the end
2007-01-12 19:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by kobanryuu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should tell your friend that u don't like her boyfriend and that she needs to choose you or her boyfriend. well i hope i helped! best of wishes! good luck!
2007-01-12 19:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by luvmattledbetter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to choose you or that jerk.shell listen to you then..goodluck
2007-01-12 19:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋