i already have a five year old boy which is not his but he is a great husband and he loves me and he is extremely supporting. please if anyone has advice....
2007-01-12 18:59:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You might want to sit down with your husband and talk this over with him....
2007-01-12 19:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by foghat77 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please do not rush into the Baby factory just yet. Have a talk with your husband about this and see if he agrees with you on it. Maybe he might want you to wait for some time before you both decide to have a Baby. Or if he wants you to become pregnant right away well, go for it. But remember to show a lot of Love to the son you have, because he was with you before you even met your husband. Good Luck and I wish you the best.
2007-01-17 02:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love candy. If you gave me a box of good, creamy fudge, I'd be delighted. But as much as I love it, I'd probably only eat a few pieces at a time. Fudge is so rich that trying to eat too much in one sitting would actually make it unappetizing. If you tried to give me fudge AND Grandma's divinity AND a piece of birthday cake on top of that, it'd be hard to appreciate it all at once. Some things need to be savored individually, and in small quantities at a time.
And it's the same with important life events. You've been married for a month now. Marriages take time to develop and mature. Caring for a baby--a wonderful, sweet event in life--would be a distraction right now from the energy you need to be devoting toward building a solid foundation for your home. Cherish this time of newly wedded bliss for the moment that it is...it needs to be savored on it's own. Later on, adding a baby to what you've established will be an enhancement. Right now, it would be a disruption.
2007-01-13 03:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both want this and are ready for this then yea hell why not and would give your son a brother/sister. If you husband doesnt want kids then I am wondering why you married him since it seems as if you do. But if he wants kids and isnt sure about right now try sitting down and talking it over with each other and see how you both feel weigh the pro's and cons on having one right away. And if like I said you both do then let the baby makin start, if now isnt the time then well its always fun to practice =]
2007-01-13 03:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by Sig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to want a baby, but I think it's too soon to start trying to have one. Give you and your husband and son time to adjust to being a family. It takes time to really bond, and you haven't been married long enough to have to work through some of the problems that always come up in marriage. The timetable for having a baby is up to you and your husband, of course, but I know from experience that it takes time to make a marriage really solid and strong, and a new baby deserves to come into a family that is stable.
2007-01-13 03:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not wrong. The real question is this... Is your new husband interested in having children? If he isn't then you will just have to wait until he is ready. If he is ready and willing then go forth and make a baby!
2007-01-13 03:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all but does your hubby wants a baby? Talk it over with him good luck with it! And congrat's on your marriage
2007-01-13 03:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by pisceslady a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming he doesn't. You should have discussed this before marriage in any event. Congratulations on your marriage. If he wants to do this then I don't understand why you're asking unless you have doubts.
2007-01-13 03:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋