my husband and i just got married last month and i want to start trying for a baby am i wrong to want this?

Question

i already have a five year old boy which is not his but he is a great husband and he loves me and he is extremely supporting. please if anyone has advice....

Answer 1

Yes.

Answer 2

Nothing wrong with wanting to have a baby with the man you love!!! But maybe it can wait alittle while.So you can have some more you,and him time first.With the five year old,you can still go places,and do things more easily.With/or with out your little one.But a baby limits alot of things.It is great that your husband is so supporting! Awesome men like that are hard to find! That's why you should maybe talk it over with him as when to try for a bundle of joy.But for now just show how special he is,and enjoy the three of you.

Answer 3

You are definitely not wrong to want another baby! and 5 years difference in age is big enough (my brother and I are 5 years apart and we never fought). Just make sure your husband is also wanting a baby or is fully supportive of it- It will make the new baby that much more special! i'm sure you both will make excellent parents and your son will be the best big brother. also be sure to include your son in the decision making process. it will also make him more excited for the baby too!

Answer 4

No you're not wrong to want this. You need to make sure it is something your husband wants also and that the timing is right for him too. I think it is something you both need to feel ready for. Keep in mind, it can take up to a year for a normal, healthy couple (with no infertility issues) to concieve so don't feel worried if it takes a while... just enjoy your marriage and go for it!

Answer 5

what does your husband think of having a baby. babies usually put a HUGE strain on a marriage since they take up so much of everyones time.

i think that you should probably ask your husband this question and find out what his opinion is about this. that seems more reasonable than asking a bunch of strangers

Answer 6

It can't be wrong to want a new baby, as long as he wants it too and you already talked about it! Many wishes of happiness!

Answer 7

wanting a baby is not wrong. however, it does have to be your mutal decision. there are so many other factors other then marriage as I'm sure you know.

Answer 8

Well if your husband agrees why not?

Answer 9

How to get Pregnant Faster – Top Ten Tips

1. Have sex three times a week.

Having regular sex is the best way to get pregnant. Couples often try to time everything perfectly for ovulation but do not have sex when they think they are not ovulating. It is true that sex that is not within the time of ovulation will not result in pregnancy. However, because women do not always ovulate when they think they will, having sex three times a week will help to a woman cover her bases, so to speak, and not miss an opportunity to get pregnant.
2. Use an ovulation prediction kit or fertility monitor.

Using an ovulation kit to predict when you are ovulating will improve your chances of getting pregnant. For many women charting or other methods of ovulation prediction are too confusing. Ovulation prediction kits work by reading LH surges prior to ovulation. They are relatively easy to use and are generally accurate for predicting ovulation. Fertility monitors, such as the Clear Blue Easy monitor, are also a worthwhile investment if you would like to get pregnant faster. Fertility monitors are similar to ovulation prediction kits in that they read changes in LH but they also read changes in other hormones and don’t require any guesswork for couples. They are easy to use and will tell you when the best time to get pregnant is.

3. Have sex before ovulation (not after).

Sometimes couples get confused about the best time to have sex in relationship to ovulation. You have a small window of time each month to get pregnant. After a woman ovulates the egg will survive approximately 24 hours. Sperm, on the other hand, will live for up to three to five days. This is why having sex two to three days before ovulation will increase your chances of getting pregnant. Don’t wait until the day you ovulate to have sex. Your partner’s sperm will last longer than your egg and you don’t want to miss an opportunity by waiting.

4. Don’t rely on the Calendar method for predicting ovulation.

A lot of couples have heard to have sex around day fourteen of your cycle. This is based on the calendar method and assumes that you have a regular 28-day cycle and ovulate mid-cycle. Although this is better than just picking an arbitrary day to have sex, it is not a very accurate way to predict when you ovulate. Many women do not ovulate on day fourteen and knowing precisely when you ovulate will help you time intercourse better. Ovulation prediction kits, looking at previous months bbt charts, or watching for body cues will help you to determine when you ovulate.

5. Charting may not be the best way to predict ovulation.

Charting is great for tracking your cycle but it does have disadvantages. By the time you can see ovulation on a bbt chart, you have already ovulated. It is good to chart so you can track your cycles, see if you ovulate the same time each month, and also so you can look back on your cycle and see if you timed things right. But if this is your first cycle trying to get pregnant or if you are not ovulating at the same time each month, an ovulation prediction kit would be more helpful.

6. See a doctor before you start trying to get pregnant.
Make sure you are in good health and have had a regular check up from your OBGYN or medical provider. Untreated infections, sexually transmitted diseases, or poor health can affect your chances of getting pregnant. Its good to see a doctor as well as start taking prenatal vitamins prior to trying to conceive.

7. Don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or abuse drugs when trying to get pregnant.
This may seem like common sense but many women do try to get pregnant while smoking, drinking or using drugs. Smoking, drugs, and alcohol can affect your fertility. It will also affect your unborn child. It is important to stop smoking or using drugs and alcohol before getting pregnant and not wait until you find out you are pregnant.

8. Have enjoyable sex.

Sometimes when couples are trying to conceive, sex becomes a job or function of reproduction and is not as enjoyable. Plan a romantic evening or try something different to spice things up. How you are feeling sexually may factor into your chances of getting pregnant. Some researchers believe that having an orgasm during sex increases your chances of getting pregnant. For women, the spasmic movements of orgasm will help pull the sperm into the uterus and for men a better orgasm may increase the man’s sperm count.

9. Have sex in positions that keep sperm inside the vagina longer.

The missionary position is a good position to use when trying to get pregnant. Avoid positions where the woman is on top. Gravity will allow sperm to leak out with these positions. Also try placing a pillow under your hips to help tilt your pelvis and keep the sperm in longer. Don’t get up right after sex. Try to relax and allow the sperm to stay in the vagina as long as possible.

10. There is no such thing as trying too hard to get pregnant.
Most couples get pregnant within a year of trying. If you have not gotten pregnant within a year consult your doctor for advice.
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