2007-01-12 18:58:13 · 9 answers · asked by ani 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have to "cultivate" it. Do things with your friend or be there during times of trouble in his or her life -- or just be there for him or her on a normal basis.
When you just start the friendship, you don't want to be too "clingy," so to speak, because that sends out bad vibes. Over time, you will both feel more comfortable around each other to express your true feelings.
Allow for differences in the friendship and don't act controlling over your friend (like commenting on his or her other friends). If the friendship turns out to be just a casual one, then be happy and leave it at that -- don't force the "close friend" or "best friend" role on a friend. If it happens, it happens.
Be positive in the friendship and validate your friend. People generally dump friends who are constantly negative and running them down.
And finally, always be on the lookout for a friend. Expand your friendship web to include a few close friends but several, if not many casual ones. If you are on a low time in your friendship quest, rely more on family members for the time being.
Hope this helps you. Good luck.
2007-01-12 19:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
faith, honesty,truth guided with joy and pleasing manners will keep the friendship always sailing.
even if some don't like also they will return for the same after getting kickbacks later.
2007-01-13 06:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
update yourself with lots of emotions and love, it works ah because friends are the only people on the earth who are just like you ,they are your mirror view go ahead and share whatever you and your heart says k just look out world is looking at you with the friendship you have made wth your friend
2007-01-13 06:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keeping continuous touch, be honest and helpful.
2007-01-13 03:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just help your friends when needed. Be sure of what are you saying to them. Understand them, their feelings. Console them in their grief and you will be enjoying your friendship.
BYE!
2007-01-13 03:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by KELL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep in touch with ure freinds from time to time. scrap them, buzz them, mail them call them up once in a while if u have a buzy schedule. be with them when they need u
2007-01-13 07:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by yourfreind_forlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
phone calls,communication,going places,talking.just being there for your friend... thats what friendship is.....
2007-01-13 03:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by slickcut 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be with your friend all the times and share your problems with them and their with yourself. That's it.
2007-01-14 02:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by keeping them happy and satisfied
the way they want you todo
2007-01-13 06:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋