I would never cheat, but I have fantasies about this. Am I a bad Wife?
2007-01-12 18:30:12 · 29 answers · asked by Jen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, fantasy is normal. It is what you do with your thoughts that is important. Do you act them out? If you do then yes, that would be wrong. But if it is all in your mind then no, it is not wrong and it does not make you a bad wife or person. It means you are human and healthy.
2007-01-12 18:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you're a bad wife, but it sounds like you think you're a bad wife. Is there some way you and your husband can act out some of your fantasies? Another question to ask yourself is if you knew he was fantasizing about other women, but would never cheat on you, would you think he was a bad husband? Maybe thinking about these questions will help you find some encouragement.
2007-01-13 02:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think you are. Fantasy is just a fantasy and everyone has fantasies regardless of the status and religion. It just so happen that you are married... plus you are a woman so you can easily be judged by the society.
What would make the situation real BAD is when you really do the act.
2007-01-13 02:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by LadyLuv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think having fantasies make you a bad wife. You are human, as long as you don't act on them without hubby involved. Not having him involved...might make you a bad wife.
2007-01-13 03:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by cheri_anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its natural, to have that fantasy, but some act on it,, its all good, men do that also, its like excitment and the prospect of the chase and gettting away with it.
2007-01-13 10:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by P_a94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is normal. Marriage is long and everyone has fantasies and periods that they get the "itch". As long as you don't act on it your are good to go. I would also recommend not telling your husband...somethings are better off unsaid.
2007-01-13 02:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by GrainOfSalt 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i guess every body has fantasies. but according to the Bible, it is already a sin just to fantasize about somebody.
well i wouldn't consider you a bad wife. but i would say you're walking the thin line. one bad step and you might fall.
2007-01-13 02:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GOOD GIRL!
Try & convince hubby 4 a 3-some.....if he dont wanna....then back of & keep it to fantasy! If you become obsessed with it...well phone a friend!.nah...just joking. good luck!
2007-01-13 03:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by crisjul v 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well.....there are women who fantasize about doing your hubby. Are they bad?
2007-01-13 03:03:21 · answer #9 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normal is the word. And I'll bet your husband feels the same way about other girls.
2007-01-13 02:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by thelordparadox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋