Because she she just can't move one with her life, and i need someone that i can rely on to be there when i need her. She is always making up excuses to not meet new people and i need to meet new people. She and i have been best friends forever and i just can't see us apart but i can't stand being with her. HELP ME please i don't know what to do.
2007-01-12 18:23:35 · 6 answers · asked by just Another 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I hope I understand you right...are you saying that your best friend is a girl like you and she wants to be with you alone and not mix with other girls having fun and doing whatever you do?
You are more social and she isn't? Well, I would just be honest with her and say ....we have been friends for a long time and I respect your ways but both of us have different needs...and I'm finding it hard to spend as much time with you as we have done up to now. Explain that you want to always have her in your life but you want more people to socialize with.
I don't think she will mind since you have been friends for such a long time. She must know you very well by now. As you age you develop different habits and wants....what you wanted last year is not the same as this year especially if you are going to school and college. You want to be out experiencing many things.
I'm sure many people have been in your shoes and you will hear from them. So don't be afraid you are not being selfish just wanting to do what is in your heart. Happy New year and best wishes. Mama Jazzy Geri
2007-01-12 18:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Jazzy Geri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Through your life, you will have MANY best friends. You just don't drop one and move onto another. How childish is that? You will meet many many people and will hold many memories with all of them.
2007-01-12 18:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be friends with her just ignore her calls and hang out with your other friend and soonshe wil ou if you are mad at her and then say yes and why and she wil be sad but she will get over it and hopefully find new friendsJ!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-12 18:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who said you have to have only ONE best friend!!!! why don't you just keep her as your best friend and sametime meet new people and make new Best friends??!! i don't see what's wrong with that!
2007-01-12 18:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
introduce your new best fren to her. let her know that there is more than one fren she can b and can find.
2007-01-12 20:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by joycelina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple...you DONT.....she will get the idea soon enough....
2007-01-12 18:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by fearsstrike12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋