Boyfriend advice.......advice please!!!!?
im 15 and my boyfriend is 16 and my boyfriend never calls me nomore or answer his phone. he calls me at a certain time everyday and we dont be on the phone for 15 min. it seems like he got another girlfriend,or something. i dont know whats wrong with him he just started to act like he do. my battery went dead on my phone and i tried to call him back like 20 times and no answer i sent him 3 IM's and he didnt say nun back.i dont know what do anymore he acts like we not even together. we have been together for 1 year. and i dont wont our relationship to end,cuz i love him to much.what should i do???
2007-01-12 18:20:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Leave him alone and give him some space for awhile. like you said, you tried calling 20 times after your battery went dead. My boyfriend and I went through that and after i finally just asked him why he wouldn't talk to me anymore, he said he just wanted to be left alone and keep our conversations short and sweet. He wasn't cheating or anything like that. They just get to a point that they know everything about you that they want to know and they still call to see how you are and to hear your voice, but they no longer have the need to call you 10 times a day and talk about nothing. Just give him space and make it seem like you have a life and are too busy too and he'll come back around. If it is anything serious, he'll just crack and tell you what's going on eventually, but if it is like you say, he'll come back around and you'll be back to normal, but without the hour long conversations. (do you really have that much to say anyways?) You are both just as young and have a lot other stuff goin on. Focus on school more and your family, but keep him involved as much as he is willing. GOOD LUCK and i bet you'll both be fine. JUST GIVE HIM A LITTLE SPACE!!
2007-01-12 19:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by lynn 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
meet him face to face and say you found some one else, this way may help by not giving him the option of asking him if he has a new girlfriend, which he might lie, because he does not know how to break up.
Put your feelings aside & realize that if he is not making a effort to contact you at anytime of the day it is because he has another interest.
There was a song that mentioned "breaking up is the hardest thing to do". It is, especailly for young teenagers who don't have the maturity to handle it.
It's time for you to expirience something that we all have gone through. Do not let it beat you up emotionally, you did nothing wrong, your beautiful & you have alot going for yourself.
Spend some time with your girlfriends & have fun.
2007-01-13 02:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by jimineejavaa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should realize your 15 and have your whole life ahead of yourself. Quit wasting you time on stupid high school stuff, mature into a smart beautiful woman, and worry about relationships when you have become finacialy stabalized, to where you don't need a man to take care of you. Then you should start looking for that special someone. Honey it's now 2007 get with the program!
2007-01-13 02:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by mbsparks11@verizon.net 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If that is the case, pls face up to reality. Either he dun luv u anymore or he's interested in another gal. You can try asking him face to face in a nice way, but i believe if he loves u he wun treat u this way. Anyway, u and him are still young, I believe you will meet someone better than him in the future. Trust me, that is always the case.
2007-01-13 02:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by toidinaerau 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was how my boyfriend acting when we were 15 (now both 27 and married)...He was needing space to get out and do things he wanted to do just like me, sometimes anyone just needs a break from each other and it dosen't mean there is another girl or that he dosen't want to talk to you anymore unless he says so.
Ask. Good luck
2007-01-13 02:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
woo, slow down. your 15 and he's sixteen. how many times a day do you call him anyways? boys sometimes want to be left alone, and they want to see different people because they are young and want to try new things. he probably feels smothered. give him a couple of days, then try to reconnect, on the phone or take him aside at school. boys are like that.. don't push him out of the relationship.
2007-01-13 02:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at 15, you are still very young to say that you are inlove,, i tell you, it's a WRONG LOVE, hope dont get upset, but it's the truth. anyway, lets get back to the situation: you talk to the phone everyday for few minutes only , its normal-becoz maybe he run out of a story already...these days you are so in-to-him... my advice,you have to get busy with your life... go out with your other friends even male friends, do your home-work and study hard... JUST THINK OF YOUR FUTURE...
2007-01-13 02:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by ♥@n$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space and give it some time. You are young and so is he. Boys are less "committed" at that age. If you are truly meant to be together you will end up back together. Don't let relationship and boy troubles get you down this young.
2007-01-13 02:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by newsoutherngirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you need to talk to him. If not your going to get hurt.You need to ask him whats going on. I understand that you love him and it hurts but you have to think that one day your going to find the one to fix all the little broken spots. Love is all a life lesson but you will the final class when you meet the one that loves you back.
2007-01-13 03:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by JENNIFER C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send a beautiful card expressing your feelings for him.
Dont forget to write a personal message in your handwriting.
And express your wish to have a long term relationship.
Best luck. :)
2007-01-13 03:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋