I have a friend who is a really smart and nice chick. Infact she is way more compassionate and thoughtfull then me or anyone i know, but she is fat and people are so cruel.
She may even leave her job because she keeps getting teased!
I dont understand why people hate fat people.
spell it out for me.
2007-01-12 18:10:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
The only people who HATE other people for such insignificant reasons are shallow and insecure. They pick on your friend so they don't have to look at themselves. Please tell her that.
2007-01-12 18:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by MotherMayI? 4 · 5⤊ 6⤋
Some people just haven't matured past the third grade. It's sad really.
I can't tell you how many times I've had people make rude comments to me out of the blue simply because I'm overweight. I guess it makes them feel better about themselves to point out the flaws in others.
2007-01-13 02:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by DishclothDiaries 7 · 8⤊ 1⤋
It's but natural for men to desire to see what is normal. Fatness maybe associated to habit of a glutton , sleuth , filthy, No offense though. But if you allow the evil within us to judge and we sometimes cannot control it, we tend to think that way. As modern men, we should curve negativism in our judgment and bring out the best in others.
2007-01-13 02:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by wilma m 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Most PEOPLE ARE SHALLOW,and like to make others FEEL BAD.I really don't care if a person is fat.Its not that great health wise,but other than that whatever.
2007-01-13 02:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
My sister=in=law must weigh 350 and I am concerned about her health. I try not to notice that when she sits down (with a lot of struggle) her stomach is to her knees. She is a minister and I wonder where she found a robe to fit and when I see her eating two or three hunks (not slices) of cake, I wonder if she is sane. I don't hate her, I feel sorry that losing weight is so difficult for her and the Lord isn't doing more to help. They don't fit the standard of beauty and people find it easy to dislike them.
2007-01-13 02:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by tina 3 · 2⤊ 5⤋
Its easy to hate others because its a way of trying to hide insecurities about ourselves.
2007-01-13 02:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by Blessed 5 · 7⤊ 1⤋
"Fear of becoming fat them self" Do you ever hear an average size person say "hey, I think I wanna be overweight? No, because most people who are not overweight work at some level not to become overweight. That is why one of the perceptions of overweight people are that they are lazy. And one of the reason they are perceived as being un-kept is because it is hard enough for a average weight person to clean themselves. When was the last time you took a q-tip to your belly button? Take a big whiff of the q-tip after you clean inside your belly button, "It ain't no bouquet of flowers your smelling there!." My point is, there are alot of extra folds and creases on a overweight human body that unless they owned a really large Jacuzzi tub to bathe in (most tubs and showers aren't big enough for the average size person) It is virtually impossible to get their bodies clean. And it is a fact that overweight people sweat more than average people do, so therefore they produce more smegma (belly button stinch.) I wouldn't say that I hate fat people, but more so than that I fear becoming one of them. I think the better question to have posed would have been, "I don't understand why some people make fun of others."
My answer to that would have to be: insecurity and immaturity.
2007-01-13 03:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by WOMAN 2 · 1⤊ 6⤋
Cuz they r ignorant, stupid, and idiots. I enjoy my being fat and those that know me really love the hell out of me cuz they know how funny and caring I truly am plus my love life hasn't suffered one bit. Encourage ur friend and let her know to ignore the ignoramuses and go on with her life, better yet let ur coworkers see how much u enjoy her company and maybe they will follow suit or r u one of them incognito? Step up for ur friend if it bothers u so much and she'll stay at her much needed job.
2007-01-13 02:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 6⤊ 5⤋
I feel like they hate me most of the time when I first meet them but I realize because I'm very attractive they worry about what I think or think I don't like them.
Bad thing about it once they realize I'm not like that I need mace or something to get them off of me. :)
2007-01-13 02:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by Sean 7 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Alot of people unconsciously take every chance to belittle someone, so that they feel all high and mighty. Welcome to human nature. We may be the smartist creatures on earth, but we are the worst.
2007-01-13 02:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by rezruf 3 · 14⤊ 1⤋
You don't really hate a person. You hate a trait in them. You see the fat person and think of things like what a bore, what a lazy bum, what a greedy pig, what a slow coach, will take up more room.
Most of the time they are traits in yourself that you dislike and wish to avoid. So by transferring those qualities to a fat person we think we are better.
And no don't involve racism in it.
2007-01-13 02:17:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 6⤋