2007-01-12 18:02:27 · 9 answers · asked by cookie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am committed( not married legaly but I am in my heart, been together five years have two kids so might as well be...N E ways) I talk to guys on the computer...some of them I know in real life but that doesn't mean that there is anything intimate about it. It all depends on the context of the conversation. Are they talking about things that couples would talk about or that friends would talk about....it sounds to me like he has already given you a reason not to trust him..if he has I would be cautious...just keep in mind that not all online conversations are cheating and your first GUT instinct is usually right. I would never cheat on my man, I love him more than I love myself, But I talk to guys on the computer..and not about anything I wouldn't show him. If he is trying to hide it then I would be worried.
2007-01-12 18:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless they are long time friends or family or something equally non-romantic, then I would say no.
As for leaving over it, that is a personal decision. If it bothers you enough that you have to think of leaving, then I think you should talk to him about it and express your feelings. Communication is the only way you guys will get anywhere. If after explanation you think it is something more, then you have to make a decision.
2007-01-12 18:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by AC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it is not a big deal these days. As a married man I can tell you that whether you are single or not, there isn't a single damn woman who will bother even really meeting a guy that she writes to online. Most merely do it for the entertainment or to feel like they are wanted.
2007-01-12 18:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Gods forbid the man have friends that happen to have vaginas. Mine actually roleplays sexual scenes with women-does it bother me? No. He looks at porn,too. He flirts,as well.
You know why?
Because I look at porn. I flirt with women. I do all of the same things he does. Why would I tell him no when I do the same thing? It's wrong.
Women want men to look at them,women want to be admired. But if their man admires another woman,they get pissed. Jealousy is the number 1 killer in relationships. Trust needs to be there. And openness.
2007-01-12 19:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's a touchy subject.
Recently, with the surge of online networking, it's not a huge deal in most situations. It's usually like talking.
2007-01-12 18:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by Joshua 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess it's o.k. as long as he isn't having cyber sex with them.
Trust your man, stand by your man but if he cheats for real say goodbye to your man!!
2007-01-12 18:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who to and what about.would be my first question.
The judgement would have to take place after these answers were revealed.
2007-01-12 18:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
r u communicating w/ someone u would leave w/.All communications are not bad so i do not see fault.
2007-01-12 18:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave of course
2007-01-12 18:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by ~sweetheart~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋