before you ask, I am 17 years old. to the point, I have a very low self esteem. sometimes I feel good about myself, sometimes not, mainly its the way I look.
I have been told by some girls I look "cute". Sometimes I feel like some girls really think I am attractive, but I still can't get over this feeling. This is really depressing, and I will appreciate any honest help from you guys, personal experiences, suggestion, or comments WILL help.=(
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2007-01-12 17:20:20 · 8 answers · asked by Brayan 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
There really is nothing wrong with how you look! Most people feel worried about their looks, though. I guess it's just human nature. Anyhow, just keep reminding yourself that you look good -- You will end up feeling better and you will come across confident. This sounds sillly, but it really works!
2007-01-12 17:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by DustNik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How one feels about himself is a mental thing. Then when we add the fact some seventeen year old young men are pretty boys it can be hard to think of yourself as attractive. I am a sixty year old man and I am still told I look boyish. I am proud of what God made me and if he wants me to be a boyish figure of a man than that is what I will be. You have to be thankful of what you are and how you look. Stand up tall and walk straight. Shoulders back and say to yourself I am a good man and I am proud to be what God made me. I have my health and a good brain I am thankful for that. If you show confidance in yourself (even though you are not) others will be confident in you as well. It is not easy but if you practice it it will become easier. I am sure if the girls are noticing you than you are a great looking guy. You have to believe that and take life from there. Being humble is good, most people that are good looking are stuck up and a drag to be around. Stay in touch with yourself and you will be just fine my young friend. Just think positive and be yourself.
2007-01-13 01:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by henelson3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look fine just the way you are! Stop worrying and enjoy life. Don't worry so much about what people think of you! There is absolutely nothing wrong with the way you look. Alot of people go through ups and downs about their looks ...it is very normal especially in the teen years. You'll get out of this stage and realize you can be comfortable about yourself.
2007-01-13 01:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell yourself you look good. How you judge yourself is very important. If you loose you self esteem, how do you aspect other to look up upon you!
2007-01-13 02:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by Carol T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude don't be embarrassed. Everyone is pretty or handsome in their own special way.
2007-01-13 01:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by Quizbe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself no matter what, being young is the nicest thing in the world.
2007-01-13 01:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by Armando 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop it, you a nice looking young man. get off of that . If someone is saying that your not they are HATTERS
2007-01-13 01:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Bank$$$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pfff iunno... just love life the way it is
2007-01-13 01:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by Caribou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋