Serious question???

Question

im 16 and i go to highschool. I have alot of at school friends . I know lots of people its just that im never invited anywhere ever to hang out with other people outside of school. And when i try to make things happen myself it never works. So i always end up just sitting at home on the weekends when all my "school friends" do stuff that im never invited to. What should i do?

Answer 1

you need to start talking to people, see I used to be like you for a few years, I wasn't invited into anything until I started talking to everyone no matter what or who they were, since then I have been invited to parties and all that, just talk be cool, calm and collective. be funny too.

Answer 2

Hi B_LONGWIL!!!

I think you are focusing way to much in others. The key of being popular is to learn how to focus on yourself!!! Then others will take you in consideration.

You seem to be trying way too hard, and that is the same reason why they ignore you. Take care of yourself, don't give to much importance to those that are NOT giving importance to you!!!

As soon as you start ignoring them, and go about your business, without counting on anybody, they will eventually will be drawn to you! Don't ask anybody what they did, or they are going to do or go.

Instead, you be the one to tell them, what you will be doing, or going! You will be surprise!!! The mayarity of the people that build-up on popularity, usually make-up, things they do, places
they go or people they know, just for that; to call the attention of others! Most of the time this stories are exagerated, but also help
for others to want to join in.

Try going places on your own, and meeting others outside your school. This way you will have experiences to share with your friends in school, and soon enough, the too would like to join you and the ones you know!

But don't put all your enerdy on people that are ignoring you
that way. Hey, who knows probably you are MUCH better off without them!!! Or probably they are NOT as fun to be with in the first place!!!

DON"T WAIST YOU TIME WITH THEM!!! Try making friends outside the shool enviroment, then tell your friends at school!!! Be confident of yourself, and play your cards right, don't just stand and listen to their stories. Be the one who invites them, just pick places and things you know they like to do.

Be YOU THE ONE telling the stories of how much fun you had, with this and with that!!! Where you went and what you did.
Make it short and sweet so they have the opportunity to ask for details. Surround yourself of some "CHARISMA", and you will be attracting more than enough friends!!!

GOOD LUCK, GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE

ALLIV Z