Long distance marriages may not be ideal marriages. But in a time where partners in marriage have to work such arrangements have to be accepted. If the marriage partners or their parents do not come to terms with this arrangement there will be unhappiness. So accept it.
To overcome the problems a little maturity, deep understanding and faith between partners is required. The stress can be lessened by:-
1. Frequent telephone calls.
2. Putting in extra hours of work at work place.
3. Good friends.
4. Sports/ walks/ gymnasium/ swim to tire oneself.
5. Considerate boss.
2007-01-12 17:47:47
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answered by Sudhir V 1
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Long distance marriages requires a lot of trust and understanding since each of the partner do not meet each other often. Possibilities of tripping on the vows taken is even more if the seperation is for a long period by either of the partners.
Also when both the partners are togather the household work loads are shared but then in this case one person had to carry the entire burden ( not the financial part). If you have issues then the children would also miss their parent and like wise.... list can go on and on...
2007-01-12 17:20:20
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answered by Sudden 5
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u indian gal? Big fat NOOOOOOOOOOO. INFIDELITY.
A guy cannot stay without sex so overseas marriages have infidelity first. Dont know your immigration status but if you are apart for 6-8 months, be assured he will cheat and have sex. Unless you are tooo sure of the guy, but I doubt he will be faithful. Also, dont ask him as he will convincingly tell u he will be faithful or is faithful.
Dont think that desi guy overseas has better values. A boy will be boy no matter where in the world. Infact it might be worse.
Not Racist but this is advise from desi guy who knows what desi guys do (fool their wives and cheat).
2007-01-13 05:37:00
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answered by Anonymous
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i'm sorry that this style of number of anybody is telling you that a lengthy-distance marriage gained't artwork because of dishonest or their archaic perspectives of 'wanting to be one.' My husband and that i have been residing lengthy-distance for the first 3 years of our marriage. certain, it grow to be not difficulty-free. attempt resolving a conflict over IM -- no longer the most useful thanks to do issues! puzzling, convinced; no longer achieveable, no. We made a habitual for vacationing one yet another, always reassured one yet another of our dedication, truly stayed dedicated (convinced, that's achieveable no longer to cheat, no longer anybody is so weak), despatched one yet another a lot of marvel care applications, and referred to as one yet another about 10 circumstances an afternoon. Oh yea, and enable me allow you to recognize -- there is not any longer some thing truly as gratifying as a one thousand-mile booty call! Marriage is about agreeing to take the coolest and the undesirable -- distance will be a nasty element, yet in case you're both dedicated to creating issues artwork they're going to. you only ought to judge your courting and your factor of believe in a unmarried yet another, set barriers that you both agree upon, and comprehend that that's truly no longer interior of in the slightest degree difficulty-free. that's a severe decision and takes severe concept and making plans. when we were ultimately able to be interior of an same position, it grow to be yet another adjustment to handle that. yet, we placed our minds to it, and that i imagine we are a a lot more advantageous couple for the pains we had to conquer jointly. per chance, in our case, distance grow to be a favorable element ;-)
2016-10-30 23:38:43
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answered by boddie 4
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Bina, If I can save one soul on this earth, this will be worth it. please NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOo for long distance relationship marriage. From your name, you are probably Indian wanting to marry someone back overseas. Please NOOOOOOOOOOOOOo. That guy will unless really known to you or family, will cheat. He will stray as he wont be able to stay with sex. so save your self for someone who will be committed to you which is what you deserve. Listen to my sincere advise and u will be happy in the long run. Dont involve your self in some mess which is hard to get out off.
2007-01-12 21:36:17
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answered by Anonymous
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TOO MANY PROBLEMS TO LIST. A few are:
being lonely leads to finding someone else,
not sharing important decisions,
oh, so many others . . . .
2007-01-12 17:19:55
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answered by lady_blu_iz 4
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No.It helps to understand each other.
2007-01-12 17:42:57
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answered by helen s 1
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