You want sex too much? I feel very close to him and want to pleasure him and be close to him in every way. Plain out he makes me horny and I want to do it at least once a day, but he says he is exhausted and at he has explained to me that he doesn't want it as often as I do. How would you feel women? I want to see if the way I am feeling is normal.
2007-01-12 17:03:08 · 20 answers · asked by Stephanie F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is not the norm for me. I am only like this with when I am wrapped up into the guy. Been together for 1 1/2 yrs. I was too much for him right from the start, but he got used to it. We have sex 3-5 times a week if I don't give up trying.
2007-01-12 17:21:29 · update #1
Yes...my husband likes to work out and he says that he can only do it like every three days. According to him I take all of his energy by wanting to do it everyday. It makes him too weak to work out.
I felt offended, like I was second. But guys do need to build themselves up. He may have low testosterone levels which reduce the sex drive. That is the most likely reason.
If a guy isn't into you, they would still take the sex and run! Obviously he still wants to be with you, but he's not that needy. Have him get it checked out! ~Good luck!
2007-01-12 17:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by FrazzledMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's like opposite of what it usually is. How often do you guys usually have sex now? Even though sex is good, if your doing it every hour it can get a little exhausting lol. Maybe find some other ways to pleasure him other than sex, like maybe just take a walk with him and hold his hand and kiss him or something, that can still give him pleasure if he loves you.
2007-01-12 17:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all relationships have one or the other that wants it more. It makes you feel rejected & unloved when he doesn't want to give it to you. I have to tell you, though, that in my relationship my man wants it all the time & I'm the one pulling back a lot. He wants it EVERYDAY & I'm not so much into it that much. 3 times a week is good for me. Don't think much about it. Everyone has different sex drives & it's hard to get it together. With us I usually & almost always give into him because I know it pleases him & I want him to be happy~
2007-01-12 17:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jaysangl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear there are a few things here at work that could be a possibility.
The first, he really isn't into you as much as you are in to him.
Two, he could have low testosterone levels, which can lower the sex drive, erectile dysfunction cause fatigue, and other issues.(See Sources).
Three, (Unlikely) everything is fine with him, and between the two of you, but he just doesn't desire sex as much as you do.
Four, (very likely) he could be gay, and the thought of having sex with you is unpleasent to him. (See Source 2)
I am gay, so I know what the last one is like personally. Before I came out, I had a fiancee, and just the thought of having sex with her made me physically ill.
2007-01-12 17:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Known guys like that... I'm the other way - I want to talk to, kiss, hug, backrub, foot massage, cuddle and have sex as much as possible with the lady I love.
Some guys just aren't that way... maybe they're closet gay... maybe something else... I don't know.
I do know that I want to always be mentally, emotionally and physically close to my partner.
Wish I could find a woman who felt the same way...
Peace,
-dh
2007-01-12 17:08:34 · answer #5 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Even once a day if it's EVERY DAY is too much to expect from any guy, dobn't know if it's "too much" of you to want it that much, but it souds like you either need to taper back a bit or maybe do it yourself sometimes? They make lots of toys and stuff for that!
2007-01-12 17:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal. i feel like that everytime i see my favorite guy. but when he says no or if i say no not this time, we always do it anyway. he says we're not doing it for a while but i know he will give in. you can be close to him but try not being so demanding when it comes to your sex life. try being closer without being aroused by him.
2007-01-12 17:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by p-jump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your concern is normal.
Your appetite for sexual activities is a little high I think but it is NOT wrong.
He is not wrong in his way of thinking either. It's his opinion.
Some people just want more (or less) sex than others that's all.
2007-01-12 17:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by Ta Dah! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Totally normal and NATURAL! Don't be put off by your partner not wanting it as much right now...he'll learn to love it.
Women are just as sexual as men, don't let society tell you otherwise.
2007-01-12 17:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had that issue with my ex. i wanted sex all the time and he didnt. it along with a few other things caused us to break up. so i know what your are feeling. you probally have a higher than normal level of testosterone in your body..its what causes you to be hornier than majority of girls.
2007-01-12 17:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by little lizzy lou lemon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋