Now before I say why I'm asking this question I'm hoping that I can get non-judgemental and helpful criticism from people here and not "gay bashing." Thank you.
In my life growing up I always felt that you have to like one gender only. When I knew I liked guys early on I thought hey I must be gay so I finally came out a year ago. The thing is though, I always was attracted to girls too but the thought of liking both seemed wrong to me in some ways but finally I got the courage to open up all over again not too long ago.
My question is, am I selfish when in the future I see myself with both a guy and a girl? I can't help but feel my life wouldn't be the same without either and would it be wrong if they both liked eachother as well as liking me? Would there really be anything wrong if we all agreed to dating eachother?
2007-01-12 16:24:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't think that there's anything wrong or selfish with that but I do think that there can be some unfortunate problems with any situation involving more than two people =/.
When you mix more than two people, love, jealousy and envy etc you can get a real mess. For instance, two of the people connect more, spend more time together etc and the other one gets jealous.
I think that it could work but it would take an amazing amount of stamina (pun intended hehe :D) and understanding on the part of all involved.
I wish you the best of luck,
Cheers,
2007-01-12 18:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by Gene M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with people being happy. Have you ever seen the move "A Home at the End of the World"?
2007-01-13 01:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A triangle would be hard to maintain, and it depends on the two people involved. But if you are truly bisexual, then I guess you should be able to be happy with one. If you are gay, then go with men. Just don't lead anyone on and break hearts, because you need to know what you want before you involve other people's emotions.
For you, and for their sake. I hope I don't sound judgmental, all I am saying is to search your heart, and if you can love two people at once, and they are cool with it, then do it.
2007-01-13 00:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Evryonbe has a right to want what is best for themselves and be happy. If you all are happy, there is nothing wrong or selfish
2007-01-13 02:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need some serious counseling. You are completely confused and need some help finding out who you really are. I don't understand why homosexuals refer to themselves as gay. They all seem to be tormented souls looking for acceptance to be deviant. Queer is a better word because that's exactly what they are.
2007-01-13 01:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
nothing wrong with dating both at the same time...just as long as both are aware. and no, you're not being selfish...
just 'cause you love your mom, doesn't mean that you're cheating on your dad...you can love two people at once.
2007-01-13 01:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by DeceptiConservative 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hon, that makes you poly amorous as well as bisexual. No, I don't think you're being selfish as long as the two of whom you're attracted to also are attracted to each other as well as you.
2007-01-13 00:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2007-01-13 11:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋