i notice every time when i guy from a diffrent race flirt with me and i tell them im black they always say u are beautiful for a black girl or they tell me u are beautiful like beyonce. i get so mad its like they are trying to say black women cant be pretty
2007-01-12 16:01:50 · 10 answers · asked by Pinky M 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
You just have to excuse the lack of class coming from the mouths of some. They don't know any better. The best thing to do is just laugh it off.
Really, those who make comments like that are not always aware of how belittling and insulting it is.......not only to you but any black female at that.
2007-01-12 16:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
They say, you look too beautiful for a black girl, but you look Beyonce?... Do they know that Beyonce is black?. What a ignorant pigs. You shouldn't even flirt with ignorants. There they see your beauty and showed interest, yet it is the color that makes them stop. They are not for you if that is who they are.
2007-01-12 19:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
yep that's what it is. I don't understand how guys can be so insensitive. Guys who make comments like that are really prejudice or have been taught by the media that black woman are undesirable. It amazes me that some black woman do not find this offensive but I do. I would not appreciate any guy of another nationality telling me that I am pretty for a black girl. It's insulting. I say if you have nothing nice to say don't say nothing at all.
2007-01-12 16:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by sunny4life 4 · 10⤊ 0⤋
It's sad that some think one has to be darn near white to be beautiful. Yes, there are many beautiful, light-skinned Black women, as there are many beautiful, dark-skinned women... and so many more in between. I can't force others to see what I see. But those who don't will miss out on a lot of beauty in this world.
2007-01-12 18:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by jussagirl 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
darkish skinned human beings would properly be sturdy finding too. enable the lady come to a decision. For which you will prefer to tell her the way you experience approximately her. Love does not care approximately those issues. It purely cares while you're so gruesome that that's going to become offensive. Btw, is this a racial element??
2016-10-19 22:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are not usually attracted to black women- just like some people arent attracted to white women. Either way.... at least theyre saying you are pretty! :) I see what you are saying though.
2007-01-12 16:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by skygirlchristine 2 · 10⤊ 0⤋
I hear that too... its an insult. Do you ever hear anyone say your pretty for a blonde? Of course not...
2007-01-12 16:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by momoftwo 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the club pinky.
I also hate that beyonce comparison. Drives me off the wall!!!
Hon, your best revenge is proving them wrong.
ciao!
2007-01-12 17:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by venom! 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
because they are losers who have nothing better to say and can't come up with a better pick up line
2007-01-12 19:38:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Pinky, stop obsessing about your color, your race, etc.. This is your second question of this sort.
2007-01-12 16:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by C. J. 5 · 11⤊ 2⤋