While I was at the dance tonight (it was awesomely cool, by the way), I was with my friend, Chris, and, yeah, you guessed it, his girlfriend was there.
Ok, back to the story. Alll of us were dancing like crazy, and, it was so weird. I kept eyeing Chris's girl, though I saw from two perspectives: a few feet from the front and 'round the back. She bumped into me accidentally, and neither Theresa (Chris's girlfriend) nor I noticed. Well, I did after a few seconds. Another accidental encounter occured during the chicken dance (don't ask).
Though she may be short (but not as short as Erin), Theresa looks awesomely great.
But ain't it weird and wrong on multiple levels?
2007-01-12 15:59:31 · 20 answers · asked by ZZ 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hey, Chris is my best friend! I can't tell him I've been eyeing his girl! He'd kill me!
2007-01-12 16:04:54 · update #1
Well, though I could be subconciously jealous, I feel like chugging down twelve gallons of root beer and hurt someone.
2007-01-12 16:11:00 · update #2
maybe u r just jealous, or maybe u r attracted to her. but if they break up, WAIT!!!! my best friend and my ex best friend had a simalar problem, but after the breakup: oh and gabe likes carlie in this short story:
rylee: i broke up with gabe.
carlie: um..ya..i know, he asked me out
rylee:WHAT??? What did u say???
carlie: i said yes
and they havent been friends since. and do u like theresa for her attitude/personality or her looks?
hope that helped!!
-H3TTY♥
2007-01-12 20:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by (miss hypnotic) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From guy to guy, you ain't doing anything wrong. People eye everyone's girl more than a few times in life. Even though he's your friend, your still human and, sorry, a guy. All good looking woman are going to attract our attention, which is the reason why they are considered good looking. And as humans, our bodies and minds react to what we like. There's nothing wrong with you looking, just as long as you don't become obessive over her or trying to flirt with her.
2007-01-12 16:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by Fightin4UrFuture 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally normal. From a girl's perspective, I've heard many stories about girls cheating on their guy with his best friend, so I guess it goes both ways. Just don't try and steal her away, and don't be the reason they broke up.
Oh yeah, and short girls can look nice too!!
But good you had fun at the dance!!
2007-01-12 16:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 03:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by lacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun,it isnt weird that you find her attractive.However,do not act on that.If you act on it,it is going to cause problems,and if he really is your friend then you wouldnt do it to him.Besides,odds are that you two may not work out,and you will lose the girl and have lost a friend,and no girl is worth a friendship.Good luck,and have a good day sweetie
2007-01-13 03:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not weird. It's actually common for friends to have the same taste. It's only wrong of you ast on it. I'm sure your friend will appreciate the fact that you think his girl is cute, but if you try to make it go any farther you will most likely lose a friend.
2007-01-12 16:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by butterflykisses_1897 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is normal to be attracted to your friends girlfriend
Stands to reason, if you are friends you would like the same thing
Also, he may be attracted to your girlfriends too
But, it is what you do about it, in your thought life and in your actions. If he is truly your friend, you will ignore your feelings, even if she comes on to you, you are his friend and to maintain that friendship there must be loyalty and trust with each other.
So just chock it up to experience, realize the feelings are normal and every time they come over you, just tell yourself that you are in control and you are not going to act out fantasy in your mind or any encouraging actions in physical life.
2007-01-13 06:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by Suzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....But ain't it weird and wrong on multiple levels?
Hey, Chris is my best friend! I can't tell him I've been eyeing his girl! He'd kill me!
Yes, I think your last sentences answer your own question.
2007-01-12 16:13:26 · answer #8 · answered by DeadLastinBetterptsoftheUniverse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well --- why wouldn't you be attracted to her? Assuming you're a young male and your friend has good taste in girls, I'd find it strange if you didn't find her attractive. That's what growing up is about -- learning that you don't have to act on every feeling that you have.
2007-01-12 16:06:02 · answer #9 · answered by rcpeabody1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You write this like we know who these people are. We don't. But you will be getting a lot of the same, predictable answers advising you not to act on your feelings, but it is normal.
2007-01-12 16:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by meghanhappy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋